SaltLakeJan wrote:Hi Beauty, [
Thanks for your interesting reply. You are an independent woman. That's what makes you what you are. When I wrote my "sort of plan" to you, I obviously didn't think it thru.
First, thanks. Yes, I definitely
am independent; sometimes, perhaps, a little too much so. Second, don't be so hard on yourself, Jan. Different things work for different people, and if you think a friend keeping you on-track is helpful, then by all means, go for it. Whatever works is what's right for you.
SaltLakeJan wrote: I'm considering making an outline of the things I want to change, and giving them to a good friend of mine. And, ask her to call me each morning, and go thru the check list. I'll think about it a liittle more.
She has very good health habits, and it would be embarassing for me to admit to her, that on a whim, I stayed up til 4:30 am just to see what was happening on CPAPtalk.com. She would suggest to me, there is something very wrong with my thinking.
Then you commented:
BleepingBeauty wrote: having someone hold you to your goals and keep you on-track will work for you, I think that's a great idea. Good luck, if you decide to try it. I fear I'm too independent for a plan like that, and I might end up resenting the friend
None of us need a baby tender; but Muffy's edicts struck home with me. My comment wasn't fomulated with thought, but spur of the monent. While I have the desire, I need to do something - to start. DH drove me (I can't see well enough to drive today, maybe tomorrow) to the Spa, I did 25 min. on the treadmill. Tried the Eliptical, (made me dizzy)
Yes, Muffy's suggestions struck a chord with me, too. I never thought of myself as having any form of insomnia, but apparently, I do. There are one or two things on her list that I just can't (or won't) do - not right away, at least. One is giving up my two measly cups of coffee in the morning. I really
like my coffee, and I don't ingest any other caffeine during the day, so I'm going to keep drinking my two cups in the morning. (There's the independence in me coming out, which sometimes manifests itself as defiance. ) The other is the smoking. Rome wasn't built in a day, and I'll continue to cut down until I can quit again. But for now, I'm content with my current regimen of staying aware of what I'm doing and working towards that goal.
I'm glad you had a good day at the spa. There's nothing near me in the way of a gym, so I'll stick to walking for now and will use my Health Rider when I can muster up the energy needed for that kind of workout.
There are so many things in life we cannot control.; however, I'd like to think that I could improve some aspects. I've rarely gone to bed at 10:30, but I'm setting that as my goal tonight, hope the cortisone will cooperate.
Isn't that the truth? And yes, you definitely CAN make a few small positive changes. You and I are both self-admitted night-owls. If I can get my butt into bed at 10:30, you most likely can too! (To be honest, I didn't think it would really make much difference, but it does seem to be doing just that. Even one more hour of sleep for me is a real bonus, so I'm going to keep at it and see how much better things can get. I'm still tired during the day, but I didn't
have to take a nap today. A small improvement, but one I can hold onto and hope for even better results as time goes on.) Old habits die hard, and it's not always easy to make adjustments at this point in life; but it CAN be done, and I have confidence in you.
You may be the one to make the most changes - who knows?
Jan
Could be. I can't focus on the big picture, though, if I want to make progress. Small goals with big effort seems to work best for me. So I'll just keep pluggin' along, and we'll see how things go. I feel like I'm on the right road, at least.
Join me, won't you?