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by Kiralynx » Mon Jul 15, 2013 1:52 pm
Time for another update to this thread.
I've mentioned having had surgery for endometrial cancer on 7 April 2008. For my first two years, I had to have labs every four months. All of them were NEGATIVE.
At my visit in January 2010, the oncologist told me it could now be every six months. And that the labs could be done by my regular gynecologist -- that she (the oncologist) didn't think I needed her any more!
In December 2012, my labs came up ABNORMAL, but a biopsy cleared the concern. Further research turned out that I have a condition which can result in frequent false positives. Oh, joy.
I made my appointment for the beginning of June, although I was concerned. In addition to the problem with the false positive, the gynecologist hurt me rather badly while doing the labs. When I commented on it to her, I was informed that "the reason it hurt is because your buttocks are too fat." I was so taken aback that I didn't say anything, but I sure thought about it in the intervening six months!
I decided that I had to discuss the matter with her, because I wasn't willing to submit to that kind of pain again, not for a lab that should not hurt.
So I did. The doctor denied having said anything like that. When I said she did, and that it upset me, she said, "Well then, I guess I better not treat you any more." And threw me out of her office.
Not knowing what else to do, I walked over to my oncologist's office, and explained the problem to her nurse. The result was, after she talked to my oncologist, an appointment with the oncologist.
The exam was thorough. We discussed the condition which results in false positives -- unfortunately, the only treatment available is hormonal, and hormones are contraindicated for someone who has had my type of cancer.
I was told... 3-4 weeks for the results.
They came on Saturday. NEGATIVE.
So I have reached the five year marker, and I don't have to have labs but once a year now.
Technically, I'm considered "cancer free."
Yet I will always be marked by it, always concerned that the next lab will be different.
It looks like I will be planning the dream vacation Harry and I have been thinking of through the Canadian Rockies... on the Rocky Mountaineer, but not for this summer, as we'd originally intended.
First and foremost is Mr. Shadow, Shadow Longhair Dachshund, who is now 15 years and 4 months old, and doing very well. He can't be boarded because it would be too tough for him. I wasn't expecting him to still be with us since most of my dogs haven't lasted much past 14, but I'm in no hurry for him to head for the Rainbow Bridge. He and his sister, Sunny, who died of throat cancer last October, have been one of my greatest supports through the turmoil of all this.
Second, of course, is the recent floods in Alberta, which have resulted in re-routing some of the trains -- and taking them to places I don't want to go..
And third is the fact that my husband wants to go to his <mumble> year high school reunion, and there's not enough vacation time to do a proper job of revisiting the Rockies AND doing the reunion.
We'll get there.
-- Kiralynx
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