Wife hates it

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Re: Wife hates it

Post by 49er » Tue Jun 17, 2014 7:39 am

old dude wrote:
49er wrote:
old dude wrote:Uh, kwillia, is that you?

Are you there?
And your point is?

49er
49er, the point is simply that an unregistered user swoops in, makes a one sentence first post that isn't completely logical (as others have pointed out) and then sits back and waits for the predictable dust up that follows. The OP of course is not heard from again.

It seems a bit like deja vu all over again.

I apologize; I thought that was fairly obvious.
Hmm, I have a different point of view. KWillia posted about being raped at a sleep center. You may feel there were holes in her claims but others with opposite point of view made good arguments why you may have been wrong.

Anyway, I failed to see what that had to do with a poster writing about his wife having negative feelings toward his pap equipment. It just seemed that you were taking an unfair shot at Kwillia which I realize is my perception and nothing more. And because she has quit posting on this board, it just seems like it is time to give that topic a rest.

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Re: Wife hates it

Post by old dude » Tue Jun 17, 2014 7:57 am

49er wrote:
old dude wrote:
49er wrote:
old dude wrote:Uh, kwillia, is that you?

Are you there?
And your point is?

49er
49er, the point is simply that an unregistered user swoops in, makes a one sentence first post that isn't completely logical (as others have pointed out) and then sits back and waits for the predictable dust up that follows. The OP of course is not heard from again.

It seems a bit like deja vu all over again.

I apologize; I thought that was fairly obvious.
Hmm, I have a different point of view. KWillia posted about being raped at a sleep center. You may feel there were holes in her claims but others with opposite point of view made good arguments why you may have been wrong.

Anyway, I failed to see what that had to do with a poster writing about his wife having negative feelings toward his pap equipment. It just seemed that you were taking an unfair shot at Kwillia which I realize is my perception and nothing more. And because she has quit posting on this board, it just seems like it is time to give that topic a rest.

49er
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Re: Wife hates it

Post by 49er » Tue Jun 17, 2014 8:11 am

old dude wrote:
49er wrote:
old dude wrote:
49er wrote:
old dude wrote:Uh, kwillia, is that you?

Are you there?
And your point is?

49er
49er, the point is simply that an unregistered user swoops in, makes a one sentence first post that isn't completely logical (as others have pointed out) and then sits back and waits for the predictable dust up that follows. The OP of course is not heard from again.

It seems a bit like deja vu all over again.

I apologize; I thought that was fairly obvious.
Hmm, I have a different point of view. KWillia posted about being raped at a sleep center. You may feel there were holes in her claims but others with opposite point of view made good arguments why you may have been wrong.

Anyway, I failed to see what that had to do with a poster writing about his wife having negative feelings toward his pap equipment. It just seemed that you were taking an unfair shot at Kwillia which I realize is my perception and nothing more. And because she has quit posting on this board, it just seems like it is time to give that topic a rest.

49er
I do understand and respect your point; I just see it the other way, which is to say that to me "her" stopping posting is a sure sign that I was right.

Admittedly, as you point out about your perception, that is nothing more than mine and could be right or wrong.
Old Dude,

She may have stopped posting out of concerns that continuing to do so would hurt her case. And even that wasn't an issue, because of the horrific responses she received, I would have quit posting also if god forbid that had happened to me.

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Re: Wife hates it

Post by Sharrykb » Tue Jun 17, 2014 8:41 am


Old Dude,

She may have stopped posting out of concerns that continuing to do so would hurt her case. And even that wasn't an issue, because of the horrific responses she received, I would have quit posting also if god forbid that had happened to me.

49er
I definitely would stop posting here if I was ever treated half as bad as she was. I am still undecided as to whether or not I believe her story, but there's no question in my mind that the way she was treated here was just ugly.

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Re: Wife hates it

Post by Day_Dreamer » Tue Jun 17, 2014 9:36 am

r[/quote]

I do understand and respect your point; I just see it the other way, which is to say that to me "her" stopping posting is a sure sign that I was right.

.[/quote]


She contacted me this morning to discuss a post I had regarding a bad sleep lab experience....... Sure sign.... I am not so sure

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Re: Wife hates it

Post by Stormynights » Wed Jun 18, 2014 12:59 am

http://crimeblog.dallasnews.com/2013/05 ... ient.html/

I hate to comment any more on this but it could happen again.

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Re: Wife hates it

Post by janelle14 » Wed Jun 18, 2014 5:49 am

I would think she would rather have you alive than dead. That is the difference between wearing one and not. I would read her the statistics and see if "looking dorky" is still and issue. Or maybe u do need a new one........

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Re: Wife hates it

Post by chunkyfrog » Wed Jun 18, 2014 5:53 am

Since when is dorky not adorable?

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Re: Wife hates it

Post by Goofproof » Wed Jun 18, 2014 10:14 pm

Wulfman... wrote:
kaiasgram wrote:Wait, wait, wait everybody!

Now that this woman has been character-assassinated:

He said
My wife hasn't said anything, but she prefers that I don't use the CPAP, since it looks dorky.
So Jim, are you just assuming she prefers that you don't use your CPAP? Are you figuring that because you think you look dorky that she thinks so too and is put off by it?

Heck, we all know we look dorky in our CPAP getup, and our spouses/partners know too. That doesn't necessarily mean they're unsupportive of our using the therapy.

Innocent until proven guilty, guys?
That premise is based on the supposition that husbands can't "read" their wives' "signals" and spoken or unspoken innuendos.

Men may never "understand" women, but they can sure interpret the signals they get from them.


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Re: Wife hates it

Post by Tatooed Lady » Thu Jun 19, 2014 11:06 am

I recall an embroidery design I have, waiting to be sewn up, stating "I'm aDORKable!" with a cute little character wearing thick black framed glasses.

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Re: Wife hates it

Post by Cuda » Thu Jun 19, 2014 11:16 am

If she ever mentions it just ask her to not sleep for a week and report how she feels. That should drive the point home.

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