Wow, thanks yet again Pugsy. I am going to have to read this a dozen times over to full understand it.
Sorry for the delay, to answer your question properly. He was diagnosed with apnea with a study and without a CPAP.
Back about 6 to 7 years ago he had an overnight sleep study and it was determined that he did not have sleep apnea. He actually did but it was determined that it was benign as he would gasp for air and then stop breathing, not the other way around.
In February 2019, he had another and he was found to have problematic apnea. We put a bumper belt on him and he had an in-home test. His results were not perfect but they were good enough and we stopped there.
There were bullying issues during the 2018/2019 school year and my daughter was very violent(and still can be) with her still largely untreated sleep apnea(and food reactions). As I was saying, she improved quite a bit with a bumperbelt like pocket sewed into the back of her sleep wear but things are still hard and I have two bite marks as of today.
My son ended up seeing a lot kicking and biting and cried a lot watching this. He still does cry but can also become violent at the same time as my daughter now, because of her, so things are getting harder.
He was having a lot of trouble at school by May 2019 and we had violence the last day of school and much more during the first week of the summer "holidays". He split my nose open when I took him to buy a basketball for no apparent reason. We had trouble pretty much everyday of summer but it calmed down a bit in August and once he was back at school, he calmed down even more to the point were there was about one aggressive incident per month from September 2019 to March 2020.
In late August 2019 we switched from bumper belt to CPAP and his doctor is now really surprised at how well he wears it, every nap, every night for a whole year.
I figured with him watching my daughter biting and kicking me and with the bullying at school, he just didn't have a safe place and that the anxiety took hold summer 2019 and that he just enjoyed being with his classmates and was depressed to be away from them.
However, when covid hit, I had both kids out of school March 13 2020 and within a week, everything he loved to do, swimming, daily grocery shopping, weekly zoo visits, evaporated, not to mention being with his classmates. We couldn't visit grandma and grandpa for 6 weeks too.
Yet from the middle of March to the middle of June, I would say he made small improvements and certainly did not go backwards. However things went bad again this year starting around mid-June and I don't know why. He has had severe allergies in the past but we seemed to have them under control with Nasonex.
So I am back to figuring things out.
and I am getting great help here!
P.S I was not able to access
www.cpaptalk.com for 2 hours this mroning. I tried from various computers and two internet connections, I don't know why