Unfortunately pretty much what I expected. Please know that my thoughts and prayers go out for you and yours.
Here in my po dunk rural area...things haven't got to anywhere near what you guys are going through. It's here but the population is much less dense and I don't know if we are just in the beginning stages or we are going to get lucky and not hit too hard. The cases around here popped up much later than in your area. So we are very early in the curve for sure.
The next county over is experiencing deaths but so far mainly in some nursing homes.
My mom is my main worry....87 years old and already extremely frail. I think myself and my husband already had it the first of March after attending a banquet last of Feb. Of course no way to know for sure until we get mainstream antibody testing.
I still treat myself as if I didn't have it though just in case it wasn't COVID and I want to limit risk of catching it (but we had all the main symptoms) and take extra precautions when around my mom and the few times I have to go out.
Please take care of yourself as best you can. Those of us here that know you....we love you and don't want anything to happen to you.