Hea83ther wrote:Robysue-
Thanks-helpful info to know. Definitely not giving up on it yet by any means. That's interesting about menopause; I wonder why that is.
Current thinking is that it has to do with the reduced levels of estrogen. It seems as though there are far fewer physiological differences between postmenopausal women and men of the same age than there are between women in their childbearing years and men of the same age. And two places where this is evident are in women's risks for heart disease and women's risks for OSA. Pre-menopause, women are statistically much less likely to develop either heart disease or OSA than men of the same age. Post-menopause, the risks become roughly equal between men and women, but even post-menopause, women are routinely under diagnosed for both heart disease and OSA.
I've read in other posts that you've written that you had quite a bit of trouble getting used to it, yourself. I'm assuming you followed all of the recommendations you're giving me at some point. How were you able to function and work for the few months you are getting acclimated to it?
Yes, I've done just about everything I recommend to newbies in my long struggle to get used to CPAP. One exception is that I've never used a FFM so I don't really know how well the mask liners work. But others here swear by them and it seems reasonable. And I do know just how big a difference the headgear pads and nasal pillows cozy have made to my comfort.
As to how I coped during those initial six months of acclimating to CPAP? Well the frank answer is I didn't. I'm blessed with being a
tenured college professor who was teaching courses that I'd taught many times before. And I relied very heavily on my husband and my colleagues and friends to help me get through the day and take over things that I just could not do. My department was rather forgiving in allowing me to resign from several committees that I didn't feel like serving on and I had really great TAs for the grading in two of the classes that I was teaching. Even so, getting the grading that I had to do by myself done was a significant chore and I missed the deadline for submitting final grades for one of the courses I was teaching. (That meant I had to file formal change of grades for every student in the class.)
I think that if I had it to do over again
with the knowledge I now have, I would have asked much earlier and much more pointedly about whether some kind of support group for new CPAPers existed in the Buffalo area and I would have been a lot more proactive in fighting the insomnia right from the start. The nonexistence of a live CPAP support group is what finally triggered the PA's suggestion that I consider getting some counseling for the anger and on-going sensory stimuli issues in actually using the machine every night. The PA first made this suggestion about six months after I started therapy I think. And it took another two months to wait for the first available appointment with the CBT psychologist who's been helped me a lot.
And I honestly think that had I been able to work with someone much, much earlier on actively desensitizing myself to the machine's stimuli, my adjustment to PAP would have been much quicker. And in an odd case of irony, I just found out that the clinic where my now current sleep doc (whom I'm still unsure about) practices has started a program in the last two or three months for newbie CPAPers who are having trouble. This program has been described to me as follows: The newbie CPAPer works with a RT for about a half day. You bring your machine in and the tech has you work with your mask at your pressure and helps you on figuring out what kinds of things you can do to fix the leaks, make sure your mask is appropriately fixed, and deal with everything that's currently simply
bugging you when you try to actually use the machine at night in your own bedroom. And for things that can't be directly "fixed", they'll make appropriate suggestions on things you can do at home to try to acclimate yourself to the particular issues you are having. All in all, it sounds very much like the kind of thing that I badly needed when I was about two or three weeks into therapy and floundering in terms of daytime functioning.