There is part of your problem. A lot of the physician's have gotten into this line of work because they DO care about people. And they DO care about their patients. And yes, My GP, My Sleep Doc, and my wife's Fertility Doc do care about us. About our well being, about whats going on in our lives, and how our treatment is going.Yes, some of them I do consider the enemy. I usually fire the ones I consider the enemy. See man, this is all about nothing but money. Nothing else. I am absolutely amazed when I read posts or hear people offline talk about how wonderful their physician is or how much their physician cares about them. I want to spew up.
All your doctor wants from you, is your money. Period. Endeth of story. The trick is finding a doctor who will actually do some work in return for your money. Some of them dont even want to do any work, they just want your money and give you the "office runaround." Check your BP, pulse, temp and then come in shake your hand and briefly talk to you for ten at most fifteen minutes.
And yes, their nurse does the BP, pulse, temp work up. And we only get 10-15 mins with the Doctor. Which is time to ask the questions, and get moving in the direction we need to go. If we require more time we get it. However, if we don't. Well there offices are very busy and there are a lot of other people just like me that they need to see, get treatet. What my Doctor does not have time for is for me to argue about every little thing, or debate their findings and method of treatment. And if you are anything in real life like you come accross on these boads. I suspect you do just that. And no, it's not that they just want to take you money with little to no effort. They just don't have the time for your nonsense. There are plenty of other patients that need help who will listen with them and work with them to better their own treatment. Who are not just there to be a pain in the backside.
Your treatment might be going better if you took a diffrent viewpoint of your Doctors and what they are trying to do for you. However as I suspect you won't. I don't suspect you will get anything resolved in the near future.