I've known I had sleep apnea for at least 10 years as my mom has it. But I thought it was just sleep deprivation, and I just needed more sleep. I didn't understand that it was OXYGEN deprivation, and that more sleep actually meant more oxygen deprivation. For years, I would get sick after every weekend event that I went to. I am a severe night owl, and I do photography at cat shows, horse shows, etc, so I have 2-3 nights in a row when I get only 2-4 hours of sleep. Then I get home and sleep 10-12 hours in one night. Almost every time, I would wake up with bad headaches, and then stay in bed all day, drifting in and out, but with a constant headache. It wasn't until I confessed to the sleep apnea, had the sleep study (severe - ahi of 79), and I found this forum that I learned that it was the sleep causing those horrible headaches. Too much oxygen deprivation at one time. The longer I stayed in bed, the worse my headache. I've been using a cpap machine for almost a year, and I have had only 2 of those headaches. Both times, I got home from a trip and fell asleep before setting up my machine. Punishment was a headache the next morning. I learned my lesson. I make sure I get my machine set up right away. Those are the worst possible days for me to skip my machine. I can't risk it.archangle wrote:That does make sense, but just think of what happens to us when we don't get enough sleep. With apnea, you may be asleep, but you may be getting woken up or partially woken up every few minutes every night even though you don't remember it. Then throw in stress and oxygen deprivation. You are basically being strangled every few minutes through the night.Seekinganswers wrote: I just never imagined that someone could change so drastically because of sleep apnea. of course he has been dealing with it for several years and never has really never gotten the right treatment going.
Also, symptoms and feeling like crap creep up on you over the years. It is easy to assume that it is part of getting older. So, we don't really know how bad it is. When I had my sleep study, I had a split night study, so after 2 1/2 hours, I was put on the machine and went back to sleep. I slept 5 hours with cpap. I hadn't had that good of a night in years. I slept 5 hours straight. Amazing. I felt better the next day. Then, the next night, I slept normally at home without a machine. I felt like crap the next day. I realized I didn't feel any worse than any other day, but I now had an understanding of just had bad my "normal" really was. I was never so happy to go to a doctor when I got my appointment. And I was excited to get my machine.
It will take some time for your husband to feel normal again. But it probably took him years to get that bad. It was just so subtle that it didn't seem like a big deal until it got too bad. It WILL get better.
Have you posted the actual model yet?