At the end

chunkyfrog wrote:We come here for HELP--(to ask, receive, and offer).
We already get enough "tough", and not enough "love" from our family, doctors, and especially (local) suppliers.
Sometime we go without positive support for so long, we begin to sound like a teensy violin;
and some folks simply don't see themselves in that place, playing "sad fiddle".
Either they have never been there, don't remember, or actually buy into the "be strong--you weakling" mantra.
Despair is a cruel thing, it works like a snowball, a big, mean, dirty snowball--once built, it can crush you.
You actually can melt that snowball--one match at a time. So get out your matches; let's get started.
Edit: ((hug))