ChicagoGranny wrote:
I expect, despite the whining of a few, poor advice will continue to be quickly and frankly "assaulted" by people who know better. That is a good thing for the forum - separating the chaff from the wheat. (Or in this forum I guess to prevent being "assaulted" I should say, "separating the wheat from the paleo".)
Many of our successful approaches are not cut and dried and a variety of approaches are needed to suit a great variety of patients. Controversy from this is a natural human condition and should not be shied away from. Get it out in the open quickly!
Oh, good: now we're "whiners."
Personally, I don't have a problem with people "assaulting" bad advice. I do still have a problem with hostile posters attacking others and berating their intelligence. If you disagree with ADVICE, then disagree with the ADVICE. Don't call someone an ignoramus, idiot, liar, spammer, Neanderthal, etc.
Sometimes, I think the internet would be a MUCH more hospitable place if everyone remembered that one day, their screen name could be shifted to their real world name or email address. Accountability is not such a bad thing. Personally, I try to operate on the assumption that one day, all my online identities may be unmasked and integrated. I want to feel good about the digital trail I leave behind.
I do wish more people would try to remember that words matter. It's not just what you say, but how you say it.
Now, personally, I am not so fragile as to be "run off" from a forum like this. Generally, the advice is sincere and delivered with great intentions. I also know to double-check info and sources, as do most visitors here. Never would I seriously consider a service dog as a brilliant device to save me from a potential head-on collision.
I also "get" sarcasm, humor, and lighthearted banter. Humor's great & much needed, especially by people fighting a life-threatening condition. And their families. Keep it (and your) cool, friends!