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Jaylee wrote:I am single though, and totally green with envy at all of the posters who are all happy and stuff

I, for one, have not ALWAYS been a happy person. There were many years that were miserable, believe me. I had to learn to cultivate an optimistic attitude, as it wasn't a life skill I learned growing up. Fortunately, my husband and I both have a sense of humor. Without that, we probably wouldn't still be married. He's a good guy, and he puts up with me. When you're ready, you'll find someone special like that too, Jaylee!

He lives in the mountains, where there is snow.

DreamOn wrote:

Jaylee wrote:I am single though, and totally green with envy at all of the posters who are all happy and stuff

I, for one, have not ALWAYS been a happy person. There were many years that were miserable, believe me. Fortunately, my husband and I both have a sense of humor. Without that, we probably wouldn't still be married. He's a good guy, and he puts up with me. When you're ready, you'll find someone special like that too, Jaylee!

You know I honestly don't know if I could ever even date again. After nine years of the physical and emotional abuse, I am not so sure I even believe in love. I think it could be different had I ever dated anyone other than my STBX. Then I would know that it wasn't always bad. But now I am in a ridiculous position where I am scared to death to even talk to a man. I keep saying no when my friends try to set me up I am considering joining a convent

SleepingUgly wrote:He lives in the mountains, where there is snow.

OR, he's vacationing in a place where there's snow. It looks like Colorado or the Sierra Nevada Mountains in California, doesn't it? Hmmm....where does PST live? Does PST stand for "Pacific Standard Time" perhaps?

SleepingUgly wrote:He lives in the mountains, where there is snow.

Hey there's lots of snow and lots of mountains here in Quebec.

Secret Agent Girl, you keep those posts coming. I think they are great!!

Attorney-stalking is misdemeanor in seven states.

Jaylee wrote:You know I honestly don't know if I could ever even date again. After nine years of the physical and emotional abuse, I am not so sure I even believe in love. I think it could be different had I ever dated anyone other than my STBX. Then I would know that it wasn't always bad. But now I am in a ridiculous position where I am scared to death to even talk to a man. I keep saying no when my friends try to set me up I am considering joining a convent

One can have a very rich and satisfying life without a romantic, committed relationship. Surround yourself with caring friends and family. Abuse takes away so much of who you are. Use this time for self-discovery and enjoy your youth. This is your time to heal and become whole.

Ms.Snuffleupagus wrote:

SleepingUgly wrote:He lives in the mountains, where there is snow.

Hey there's lots of snow and lots of mountains here in Quebec.

Well, yes, now that I think about it, there are A LOT of places that have snow and mountains, aren't there? I guess we'll just have to rely on PST to spill the beans on his location....

The women are swarming, PST.

BleepingBeauty wrote:

DreamOn wrote:

PST wrote:Not everyone. I mostly come here to meet girls.

And I would think this could be a good place for singles to meet. You already have at least one thing in common -- sleep apnea.
I'm happily married myself, but for any single ladies who may be interested -- what part of the country do you live in, PST?

Funny you should mention that, DreamOn. It was a topic of conversation in the chatroom very recently. Got me thinking.
So yes, PST, where are you?

Was that where that grump said "loose women tightened here"?

BleepingBeauty wrote:

DreamOn wrote:

PST wrote:Not everyone. I mostly come here to meet girls.

And I would think this could be a good place for singles to meet. You already have at least one thing in common -- sleep apnea.
I'm happily married myself, but for any single ladies who may be interested -- what part of the country do you live in, PST?

Funny you should mention that, DreamOn. It was a topic of conversation in the chatroom very recently. Got me thinking.
So yes, PST, where are you?

I didn't expect to come back to this. My cheeks are red. Actually, I'm married too, but after reading these replies, I think maybe when I pull on my mask tonight, I'll dream that those mountains are in Utah, the polygamy state (apologies in advance).

I'm from flat old Chicago, where we can usually manage some snow, but there isn't a decent hill in the whole state. The picture is just one I like because it seems like such a silly place to be carrying a briefcase, but there's no telling with lawyers.

PST wrote:

BleepingBeauty wrote:

DreamOn wrote:

PST wrote:Not everyone. I mostly come here to meet girls.

And I would think this could be a good place for singles to meet. You already have at least one thing in common -- sleep apnea.
I'm happily married myself, but for any single ladies who may be interested -- what part of the country do you live in, PST?

Funny you should mention that, DreamOn. It was a topic of conversation in the chatroom very recently. Got me thinking.
So yes, PST, where are you?

I didn't expect to come back to this. My cheeks are red. Actually, I'm married too, but after reading these replies, I think maybe when I pull on my mask tonight, I'll dream that those mountains are in Utah, the polygamy state (apologies in advance).

I'm from flat old Chicago, where we can usually manage some snow, but there isn't a decent hill in the whole state. The picture is just one I like because it seems like such a silly place to be carrying a briefcase, but there's no telling with lawyers.

Aw, you just broke several hearts, PST

PST wrote:

BleepingBeauty wrote:

DreamOn wrote:

PST wrote:Not everyone. I mostly come here to meet girls.

And I would think this could be a good place for singles to meet. You already have at least one thing in common -- sleep apnea.
I'm happily married myself, but for any single ladies who may be interested -- what part of the country do you live in, PST?

Funny you should mention that, DreamOn. It was a topic of conversation in the chatroom very recently. Got me thinking.
So yes, PST, where are you?

I didn't expect to come back to this. My cheeks are red. Actually, I'm married too, but after reading these replies, I think maybe when I pull on my mask tonight, I'll dream that those mountains are in Utah, the polygamy state (apologies in advance).

Sweet dreams, PST.

Sorry to have participated in your moment, but be sure to tell your wife we all say "Hi!"

PST wrote:I didn't expect to come back to this. My cheeks are red.

I hope you are having pleasant dreams tonight, PST....

I didn't intend to embarrass you, and I apologize (to all) for getting a bit carried away. And sorry about that, Mrs. PST. We were just having some innocent fun here. I think.

Hi All

First of all I had better get straight the foes listing.

If you list someone as a foe, you can still see their name on the thread where their post is, but not the post. But you can see the post if you click on it - eg -

This post was made by Mars who is currently on your ignore list. Display this post

I used to use the foes list a lot. If anyone slighted me, disrespected me, disagreed with me, lied to me, used words I couldn't understand, laughed when I wasn't being funny, those who didn't take my advice, those who said my advice was wrong, and, of course, there were those who were downright nasty, then they all went on the foes list.

I could get through a days postings in about 2 minutes!

Then I got a PM from Johnny, who told me that they did not have unlimited hard drive space, and could I please work at being less sensitive. And I must admit, the Forum wasn't fun anymore.

Still, I might offer Johnny a couple of my spare hard drives, remembering everybody is such a hassle

Mars

mars wrote:I used to use the foes list a lot. If anyone slighted me, disrespected me, disagreed with me, lied to me, used words I couldn't understand, laughed when I wasn't being funny, those who didn't take my advice, those who said my advice was wrong, and, of course, there were those who were downright nasty, then they all went on the foes list.

I bet you did, Mars.

And I must admit, the Forum wasn't fun anymore.

Yep, if you (that's a generic you, Mars, not you in person) prefer excell charts to soap opera, why bother with the hassle of a forum?
O.