My Husband and Sleep Apnea....I need you help

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frtwome
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Re: My Husband and Sleep Apnea....I need you help

Post by frtwome » Thu Dec 24, 2009 7:59 pm

I am going to go online now to search for items & more information, like the cpap pillow and I do want the software in order to get the daily reports, I don't know how else I can be sure that this is working, and as you say, understanding the data to be able to make needed adjustments.
I just want to say how much that I appreciate all of you, everyone on here. I don't know what I would have done without the help that you all are so willing to give to us. It's been very lonely for a long time, and for the last few weeks with all of you out there, I didn't feel lonely at all.
I thank you all for everything.
And I wish you all a very Merry Christmas
DoriC wrote:Judy, Just a couple of thoughts. I think David did great last night sleeping 4hrs and remember that was after a 3hr nap in the late afternoon. I think for insurance purposes they consider 4hrs or more as nightly compliance, of course his goal will be 7-8hrs which will happen. I don't know about your mask but with the FF after Mike adjusts his I put my hands around the edges to feel for any air leaking and we adjust. Also in most cases apneas occur more frequently in supine position and during his sleep study Mike had most of his events on his back, so it's a good habit to sleep on the side. If this position produces leaks after you've done all the adjusting you might want to get a special cpap pillow, you can do a search here or start a new thread about bed pillows and you'll get lots of replies. I don't want to throw too much at you all at once but even more important because we are the caregivers, having the software and daily reports is essential to seeing what's happening and giving the experts here the tools to help you understand the data and what adjustments to make. I'm glad you got your Xmas present just in time and a happy,healthy New Year to both of you. Dori

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Re: My Husband and Sleep Apnea....I need you help

Post by gasp » Thu Dec 24, 2009 8:05 pm

Judy, you are the best Christmas present any husband could want. I'm so happy he feels more rested on therapy! Good job! I wish for you, your husband, family, and friends the very merriest of Christmases and an amazing New Year. This next year will just keep getting better and better as your husband gets more and more rested. Yeah!!

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Re: My Husband and Sleep Apnea....I need you help

Post by frtwome » Thu Dec 24, 2009 8:27 pm

Hi,
And thank you, this is really very nice of you to say. Yes, I really feel 2010 will be a wonderful New Year.
Merry Christmas to you,
Judy
gasp wrote:Judy, you are the best Christmas present any husband could want. I'm so happy he feels more rested on therapy! Good job! I wish for you, your husband, family, and friends the very merriest of Christmases and an amazing New Year. This next year will just keep getting better and better as your husband gets more and more rested. Yeah!!

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Re: My Husband and Sleep Apnea....I need you help

Post by DreamOn » Thu Dec 24, 2009 8:30 pm

frtwome wrote:He came in here and told me "You know Judy, this might not be so bad, I actually feel like a got a little bit of sleep, I think that I might like this".
Judy,

I can't tell you how happy it makes me to hear that! You must've felt ecstatic!!! I know what a difficult road this has been for both of you. It isn't always easy, but xPAP can make such a huge difference in our health and the way we feel. It's possible that he may see some decrease in his blood pressure. Mine is a bit lower now. Energy should gradually return. There's really no reason for people to suffer from the effects of sleep apnea when there is something we can do about it.

Down the road, when your husband is feeling better, if he's interested in learning more about sleep apnea, there are some excellent books on the subject. And, of course, he's always welcome here. If he encounters any challenges, chances are we've been through them too.

I think your husband is going to do very, very well. Now, I hope that YOU will be able to catch up on your sleep too. It'll all come in time.

Many blessings,

DreamOn

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Re: My Husband and Sleep Apnea....I need you help

Post by Muse-Inc » Thu Dec 24, 2009 8:37 pm

frtwome wrote:...Right now David is sleeping with the mask & machine on. Dori, I am so use to hearing so mush noise coming from David that I have to know. The first night that your husband used it, was he unusally quiet? I have been in there to check on David every ten minutes, because it's kind of scary not hearing the sounds that I am use to. He went in there to nap at 3:30pm today, and now at 6:08pm his is still sleeping with no interuptions, I don't know what to think of this. If this is real sleep that David is getting right now, he will be thrilled. This is so exciting, but yet a little scary, no knowing for sure....
Aww, ya done made me teary-eyed reading this! It is so tragic that we undiagnosed apneaics go so long with such incredibly lousy sleep...it reminded me again how exhausted I used to be and how grateful I am that that is in my past, my several yrs ago past. I hope your beloved adjusts quickly and starts getting restful sleep. Recovery from the ravages of apnea is wonderful, so much of that damage can be healed when we get our therapy dialed in.
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Re: My Husband and Sleep Apnea....I need you help

Post by cotech50 » Thu Dec 24, 2009 9:49 pm

Congrats to David for taking the leap of faith, and what he achieved in his first 4 hrs as a new HOSE HEAD. He may find like me I actually look forward to putting the mask on and drifting off to sleep. I actually achieved a 7 hr night last night only up once. It may take some time for him to start getting some energy levels back but it willl come with time. We don't get this run down overnight so it stands to reason it will take time to restore.

You and yours have a very MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!

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Re: My Husband and Sleep Apnea....I need you help

Post by KatieW » Thu Dec 24, 2009 11:12 pm

I am so happy for you and your husband. What a long way you both have come, from your 1st post. Please keep in touch about his progress.

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Re: My Husband and Sleep Apnea....I need you help

Post by bailachel » Fri Dec 25, 2009 10:47 am

Congratulations on your persistence in getting your husband the help that he needed. It is wonderful that he is doing so well right from the start! What a great way to get ready for the new year.

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Re: My Husband and Sleep Apnea....I need you help

Post by goose » Sat Dec 26, 2009 2:23 am

frtwome wrote: He came in here and told "You know Judy, this might not be so bad, I actually feel like a got a little bit of sleep, I think that I might like this" And days before when I told David about your husbands remark about his girlfriend, David said "I think that I can understand that, I might just have me a girlfriend too!"

YAY!!!!!!!! (Happy Dance in progress!!!!)
Judy, he's on his way!!!!
It's not all going to be hills -- there will be valleys too, but with that attitude, I believe he'll just pick it up and climb back up. After more than 2.5 years, I still have ups and downs, but have just learned to deal with it.....I'm also very stubborn. I'll be damned if I'm going to let a machine or mask get the better of me!!!
I'm sure I'm preaching to the choir, but he can't get discouraged if he has a bad night or two....persevere and it will get much better!!!!
Girlfriend, little buddy, or whatever "we" want to call her/it, it's a great partner to have, but even as important as it is to the whole process -- it's just the mechanical part -- it's not as important a partner as you have been!!! I hope David realizes what a lucky man he is!!!!
A tip of the glass to you and David for an excellent 2010 and beyond!!!! Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!!!!!
Take care
cheers
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Re: My Husband and Sleep Apnea....I need you help

Post by dsm » Sat Dec 26, 2009 3:10 am

Judy
What else is there to say

WONDERFUL !!!

Hope you & David are on a ride to a happy 2010.

Cheers DSM
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