I started CPAP with no followup from my provider, the VA. I felt somewhat better, but I thought there was more. After discovering this forum I bought the software and started monitoring my progress. My initial pressure was 7. Here is where I started, and where I would be today if it weren't for you guys:

I saw that this was not ideal and began to slowly increase my pressure. I kept each change for at least a week. I am currently at 10.5, and here is my report from last night, a little over a year later:

This was a very good night, but my AHI is usually 1.0-1.5. There were several turning points in my progress:
1. I had a Swift mask and the discovery of Ayr Gel (thanks!) immediately made the difference between a partial night and a full night.
2. A flatter pillow brought the AHI down.
3. A Headrest mask (thanks!) brought it down again.
4. The rubber band trick (thanks!) brought it down again.
I have not slept without the machine for a single night, and I feel better than I have in years. I am totally comfortable with it, and sometimes I feel for the exhaust to just make sure it is still running. It doesn't bother me a bit, and I can't imagine sleeping without it. I can wake up with a headache after a nap without it. A whole night would be torture. I run a report every morning and keep looking for ways to improve my therapy.
So if you're wondering if you should take things into your own hands, the answer is YES! You have to have a data-capable machine and software so you'll know what you're doing, and you should make the changes slowly. I have met several CPAP users who have no idea how they're doing, and others who have stopped therapy because they "don't like the mask" or "it was just too hard". They're going to die earlier than they should, and they will feel worse while they're getting there. This therapy IS NOT optional, and you owe it to yourself and your loved ones to make it as good as possible.
Thanks again for helping me in this journey.
Sam