Most of you guys and gals I consider my friend and I think you will understand.
We do have another moderator but that person has yet to learn the inner workings of the moderator controls that you all never see but that person has yet to be instructed on the spam patrol thing and new account post approval. That stuff.
Up to that person to let you know who they are or they can stay anonymous.
So twice a day...morning and evenings I will make a quick stop by here and do my moderator thing.
My mother is in bad shape both physically and mentally. This past year has been a nightmare. We don't know if it is plain old dementia or Alzhimers and at this point it doesn't matter. She turned 91 last month. She can't bear any weight on her failed knee replacement and her mind is also shot. I can't tell you how many times in just the last couple of months that I get phone calls 24/7 with her wanting me to take her home but the only problem was that she was already in her home.
Months and months of this. Her memory is trashed. She's waaaaay overweight and no way I can physically deal with her.
She weighs more than twice what I weigh. Then there's the mental thing. She wants to call the house phone and have Don come take her home. Only problem they haven't had a house phone for nearly 20 years and Don has been dead since May 2008. We put her in the nursing home kicking and screaming not quite 2 weeks ago.
She tells the nurses she needs to go home to take care of her mom and that she drives and shops and does everything all by herself. She doesn't do any of that. She can't get off the portable commode, we have by her chair, to get back in her chair.
She can't do anything for herself.
A month ago her granddaughter (care person) had to call the paramedics at 3 AM to help get her off that commode.

Anyhow my own daughter will be here this Friday and the plan is to go looking through stuff and some cleaning at my mom's house (gotta sell it since there is a rever erse mortage) so I won't be here much for a few weeks most likely but for sure this weekend.
Granddaughter is moving out of the house this weekend and she never cleaned a fucking thing so I know who gets to do it.
I will be around morning and evenings briefly mainly for new account post approval and need for speed....so don't you guys think that while the cat's away the mice will play....... PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE no snarky shitty personal attacks or pissing contests.
To be honest may patience level is sub zero right now. Don't go pissing me off because my short temper is ugly for sure.
Play nice in the sandbox please....or go find another sandbox to play in because you got banned from this one by a short tempered old woman.
Thank you for understanding.