I respect your perspective. PR's communication style isn't perfect. But neither is mine. Heck, neither is Pugsy's, for that matter. I read PR's comments in this thread as being an informative attempt at explaining, in old-school fashion, that pushing back argumentatively as a style when asking for help could alienate experienced posters like himself in a forum such as this one.
If I had a choice between (1) a guy with useful info and (2) a guy with a gentle bedside manner, I would choose useful info every time, although I fully respect the preference of those who would choose the latter. Ideally one would get a perfect balance of both in one guy, but life rarely works that way. Thus the benefit of a variety of styles in any one forum.
Personally, I deeply respect and applaud the strides PR has made in showing increasing amounts of restraint and patience in recent months when dealing with new members. That, sir, is my perspective, for whatever it is or isn't worth to you.