It's absolutely true that sleep apnea has complex etiologies. Yet here you ASSUME that (despite his history of snoring) your father's weight gain caused the sleep apnea--not recognizing that the underlying cause may not have been his weight gain at all. Unless he had a sleep study ruling out sleep apnea when he was "young and thin as a rake", you don't know that he didn't already have sleep apnea. The weight gain may have been coincidental, or the apnea may have even caused the weight gain.My father already was snoring, when he was young and thin as a rake. He developed sleep apnea after he become older and put on weight.
Yes, excess tissue from obesity can cause apnea in a subset of people. But I see too much assuming that because excess weight CAN cause apnea in obese people, therefore all obese people with apnea have apnea because they are overweight.
This belief is also a barrier to thin people getting proper diagnosis. How many thin people here were told that they couldn't possibly have OSA because they were thin--some had to really push their doctors for testing.