TooNew wrote:
Oh, and all 3 issues have happened in the last 4 years. Prior to that, I had zero issues, so give please me some leeway to feel pissed off (not at anyone here, just life in general).
Feel free to be as pissed off as you want to. But sooner or later you have to realize that being pissed doesn't accomplish anything.
You are hardly the first person to have a cluster of health issues happen in a short amount of time. You are hardly the first person who is skinny to have a cluster of health issues that are typically related to being overweight crop in a short amount of time.
So being pissed is not new.
The question is whether you can see a way past being pissed and listen to your doctors and your wife about the need to treat your OSA and the reasonableness behind the idea of at least
trying out CPAP therapy first.
But as you said: Nobody can force you to try CPAP. The choice really is up to you:
- You can continue to be miserable and short tempered and sleep deprived while going through the long process of getting a second opinion and getting screened for painful, invasive surgery that may or may not fix the problem.
Or
- You can try CPAP and still work through the long process of getting a second opinion and getting screened for surgery if CPAP turns out to be as dreadful as you fear it to be.
But please understand: Here at cpaptalk, we're a forum dedicated to helping people make CPAP work. And as such, we're NOT going to tell people that it's ok to not even try CPAP. Rather, we're going to tell people that CPAP is well worth trying because we know CPAP
can work and can work
exceptionally well if a new PAPer is willing to do the necessary troubleshooting. In other words, we know that most people can learn how to sleep well with a CPAP
if they really want to, and we also know that a typical OSA sufferer who sleeps well with CPAP every night, all night long is going to feel good during the daytime---as they'll in wake up feeling rested most days and have plenty of energy to get through the day and accomplish what they want to accomplish.