Todzo wrote:Seekinganswers wrote:I found this forum and am in hopes that someone somewhere can help me find answers or at least hoping to find others who are experiencing the same kind of problems as my husband.
I will make this as short but informative as possible. My husband who is in his early 40's has had many issues over the past 10 years with tendon and muscle injuries that wouldn't heal for months and even years. He also found out he had very low T a few years ago and got HRT at a well known place that inserts pellets every 6 weeks until it is up to par. They got his up to over 1000 and he was still exhausted all the time. As time went along, I became aware of his obstructive sleep apnea because it became severe enough that it woke me up. 3 sleep studies later, he was given a cpap machine. He found that he couldn't use it due to his deviated septum and stuffy nose. He would feel like he was smothering after a couple of hours if he could even start out with it on. So he had surgery on his nose last year, rhinoplasty with turbinate reduction. After the initial swelling went down and his nose healed, he was given a bipap machine. He used that pretty successfully for 2 months. Then his nose became so stuffy again that he could not use it at all and it is now collecting dust. As the weeks went by, he became more and more exausted and having to pull off the road to take a nap before he could drive home from 5 miles away from the house (scary) and he became more agitated/irritable. 2 months ago, his libido became non existant. We have been married for many years and have always enjoyed a very good sex life. Now it's gone and all he can say to me is he just has no desire to do anything, isn't looking forward to anything and just more or less gets through the work day as best as he can and comes home every chance he gets and takes a 15 min nap. He says he still loves me but just has no feelings when he holds me or looks at me. He had been having problem in that department for about a year, problems maintaining an erection but we would work through that to a good end, but now it's just nonexistant. This has been very hurtful for me but I'm trying to understand. Has anyone else had this experience? We have been to so many doctors in the past 5 years with this that we are losing faith in the healthcare field. The latest and greatest news is, I found a sleep apnea specialist who speaks all over the country who has examined him and told him he needs his tonsils, adnoids, uvula and part of his tongue removed which is going to be very very painful with a week stay in the hospital...but no guarantee of success..possibly 60%. HELP!
Hi Seekinganswers!
First please read and share with your doctors[1,2]!!!
Second I think I would look into traditional Chinese medicine. Many claim to be cured of OSA by these and I am finding what I have instituted so far useful. As well they have more cures and methodologies for sexual things than anyone I think. I did not expect to find that but it is certainly there.
May you find the best health!
Todzo
[1]: Gilmartin G, McGeehan B, Vigneault K, Daly RW, Manento M, Weiss JW, Thomas RJ.
Treatment of positive airway pressure treatment-associated respiratory instability with enhanced expiratory rebreathing space (EERS).
Source: J Clin Sleep Med. 2010 Dec 15;6(6):529-38. Division of Pulmonary, Critical Care and Sleep Medicine, Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, Boston, MA, USA.
Link:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21206741
[2]: Dynamic CO2 therapy in periodic breathing: a modeling study to determine optimal timing and dosage regimes
Yoseph Mebrate, Keith Willson, Charlotte H. Manisty, Resham Baruah, Jamil Mayet, Alun D. Hughes, Kim H. Parker and Darrel P. Francis
J Appl Physiol 107:696-706, 2009. First published 23 July 2009; doi: 10.1152/japplphysiol.90308.2008
Link:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19628721