SleepyToo2 wrote:
BlackSpinner, thanks for the clarification - sounds intriguing! I was just a bit put off by the statement on the page that I looked at that said if you don't use the right words you can get into trouble, and you need to learn to turn off the relaxation. So, do you just go through the script and the canceling each time?
That is why it helps to have someone coach you. Yes the cancelling is almost as important as the relaxation itself. Especially once your body/mind learns the relaxation part, if you don't cancel you walk around like a zoned out ancient hippie. Now this effect is very useful if you are having a migraine and are in your darkened room, but not if you need to do something. Also it is believed that the going in and out of "trance" mode, which changes your blood flow is one of the things that benefits the headache/migraine issue.
The using the right words; Think about it, you are building a new habit, a new coping skill. Words are triggers. It is sort of like programming a computer when you use stuff like this and every word, every space, every tone is important. Kind of like a Microsoft update on Tuesdays, if they screw it up nothing works right anymore.....
I use the very simple script "My xxx is very heavy" and I cancel by taking a deep breath and bring my clenched fist to my shoulders. That is the routine I learned and it is very effective for me. Each segment last one minute, unless I chose to go deeper into trance and stay there.
I also use this method for going into deep trance for spiritual practices, in which case I don't do the cancelling until I am finished and then I may be do it several times to make sure I am fully grounded back in Ordinary Reality.
71. The lame can ride on horseback, the one-handed drive cattle. The deaf, fight and be useful. To be blind is better than to be burnt on the pyre. No one gets good from a corpse. The Havamal