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SleepingUgly
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Re: death of member

Post by SleepingUgly » Tue Aug 02, 2011 10:50 am

I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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Re: death of member

Post by justbreathe » Tue Aug 02, 2011 10:54 am

Sorry to hear of your loss. I will pray for God to comfort you in your grief.

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Re: death of member

Post by OutaSync » Tue Aug 02, 2011 11:10 am

My heart aches for your loss. Thank you for taking the time to let us know waht happened to Nord. If there is anything that we can do for you, as a community, please let us know.

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Re: death of member

Post by Slinky » Tue Aug 02, 2011 11:42 am

I, too, am so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. What a terrible blow to you and the rest of your family. My heart and prayers go out to you and yours.

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Re: death of member

Post by Emilia » Tue Aug 02, 2011 11:51 am

My sincere condolences on your loss. Taking the time to write on here is appreciated, and sharing Gord's story may help others who struggle with their therapy to put forth more effort to get it to work. Your dear husband's struggle is a testament to the many problems cpap users encounter and why so many give up. The long term damage to the body cannot be overstated. May his passing, in some way, help others re-commit to making it work for themselves. For those of us who have succeeded in our therapy, we can re-commit to continuing our help to others in need. My thoughts are with you and your family, and, again.... thank you for sharing.
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Re: death of member

Post by tbone421998 » Tue Aug 02, 2011 11:55 am

Condolances to the Nord family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Re: death of member

Post by ameriken » Tue Aug 02, 2011 11:58 am

Nord wrote:My husband was dealing with sleep apnea for some time. It was an extremely difficult issue to deal with. Although he was using the machine (and had tried several before he finally found a mask and machine that seemed to work reasonably well) it did not completely solve his health issues. He was always extremely tired and couldn't seem to get the energy to do the things that he needed to be done. On July 26, 2011 he passed away from a massive heart attack. It was extremely sudden and came with no warning. He had been to the Doctor about 3 weeks ago for a checkup and blood work. He was managing his high blood pressure reasonably well and definitely worked with the doctor to kept it at normal levels. This site was one that he came to often in the first while after he was diagnosed. I truly wish that somebody in the medical community would do some decent research into this and come up with some better methods of treatment. Maybe it takes some sort of Celebrity to front this cause. Gord was only 62 and we had many plans for the future. He leaves behind a loving wife, 2 sons, a daughter and 3 grandchildren. He was truly a wonderful person and words cannot express how much we will miss him. Thanks to all of you who answered his questions on this site.
I am so saddened to hear this, especially since he was trying, like everyone else here, to do something about it.

In fact, this really hits home because I too wonder why I still feel tired and often don't have the energy. You are so right that the medical community and the public, needs to take this issue more seriously than they do now because sleep apnea is a silent killer. I think anyone here who is not getting good results and who has a sleep doctor who is not taking their therapy seriously needs to print this and make their doctor read it and demand better attention and care from them. And if you don't mind, that is exactly what I am going to do this month when I meet with my sleep doctor.

I am sorry to hear this and feel very badly for you. Thank you for posting this despite the difficulty you are going through and I hope and pray that you can find some comfort, strength, and healing through this.
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Re: death of member

Post by redjoe » Tue Aug 02, 2011 12:03 pm

I'm very sorry for your loss. Know that I will pray for comfort and consolation for you and your family.

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Re: death of member

Post by bailachel » Tue Aug 02, 2011 12:41 pm

I'm very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

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Re: death of member

Post by busylady » Tue Aug 02, 2011 12:53 pm

Condolences to your whole family. Thank you for sharing on this forum. His story may be a motivator for others to seek treatment or renew their efforts to find good therapy. Hold on to the good memories.
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Re: death of member

Post by DaveL » Tue Aug 02, 2011 1:08 pm

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I celebrate Nord's life.
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Re: death of member

Post by newhosehead » Tue Aug 02, 2011 1:08 pm

I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

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Re: death of member

Post by rested gal » Tue Aug 02, 2011 1:15 pm

My sincere sympathy to you and his entire family.

Thank you for letting us know. He will be missed.

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Re: death of member

Post by jabman » Tue Aug 02, 2011 2:23 pm

I am very sorry to here of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

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Re: death of member

Post by Bright Choice » Tue Aug 02, 2011 3:21 pm

I am so sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing.

Blessings to you and your family.

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