XJ, I enjoyed reading your post(s) very much. I'm not in the legal or medical field, but I thought what you wrote to start this thread contained well reasoned, well organized, beautifully articulated points. A pleasure to read and think about.
xj220c wrote:I came into this forum because it seemed people here were interested in open discussion about CPAP and the circumstances surrounding their therapy.
I am. I'm
very interested in open discussions about all things "CPAP." I hope you'll continue posting on this forum,
XJ.
Well said, Laurie and cwied. I wholeheartedly agree:
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Laurie1041 wrote: I really enjoyed the original post. I did not find it inflammatory nor offensive in the least. IMHO, it was only an exercise in starting up a discussion. As I review each post, I find it interesting that some people "respond" and some people "react". Coming from a purely psychosocial model, it is my understanding that our reactions and responses are largely shaped by whether or not we feel there is a threat to self - in this case, I can only imagine that it relates to perceptions revolving personal choice and freedom, along with the need to have power over our health.
In reviewing the original post, I cannot find one instance where the poster said, "Don't change the settings of your own machine or else. . ." I read about a bunch of laws, regulations, and rules and a personal interpretation based upon the poster's experience of reading case law, statutes, etc. Not once did my hackles rise up and my panties get in a bunch while reading the original post.
To me, it was merely academic and an interesting way in which to get people talking and sharing. Any communication, whether written or spoken will most certainly breakdown when people become disrespectful, argumentative, punitive, or shaming. I see no need for any of us to stoop to this level.
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cwied wrote: What I see in this thread is an OP that lays out a series of facts in a neutral way followed by several posts attacking the poster without any reference to the content of the post.
I think it does a disservice to this community when every poster who is perceived as deviating from the accepted way of thinking is insulted and attacked. If you disagree with what somebody is saying, can't you address the points they make instead of calling them names?
This site is great in many ways. I've seen a great deal of support for other users that are clearly in pain. I don't understand why experts get such a different treatment in this forum.
I am a CPAP user and not an expert in medical or legal fields. However, I'm very interested in learning more from all sides - both from other users and from experts. I've watched at least three other posters that claimed to be experts be chased away from this forum by the vitriol that spews forth every time that someone posts something that doesn't unequivocally support a patient's doing whatever they want to with their machines. I think it's a shame that we don't get to hear both sides of the story here.