I'm sorry you are feeling mocked and manipulated.

I want to tell you that I do not experience the forum the way you do. I enjoy this forum because it is pretty free of rules as compared to others I've been part of. I enjoy the freewheeling feeling here. A sense of humor is okay here. Off topic posts are just fine, as long as you mark them as such. I've never felt mocked or censured. People here have only tried to help. Yes, people are sometimes testy but that's human nature. And the text nature of the forum sometimes makes it harder to assess intent. That's why I make fairly heavy use of emoticons.

I think you are reading too much into Jnk's comments. Like most of us, I'm sure this is based on your previous experiences and, in your case, they were bad for you. Viewed through your personal filters, you see his comments as mocking and manipulative...as like those coming from the members or leaders of the church/cult you were part of before.
Please see if you can take a step back, breathe, and try to look at this with a more objective eye.

Hang in there.

