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Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by dataq1 » Sun Feb 13, 2022 12:21 am

In 2007 John Goodman (our site/forum sponsor) laid out his expectations for moderating behavior of participants. Rather than repeating that narrative, another contributor neatly summarized it by saying:
All views are acceptable here as long as they are politely and cleanly stated.
I was surprised when a recent thread that I had started ( see: Contributors Qualifications) was locked because of a squabble between two other posters. The reason for closing and locking the thread was because one of the other contributors (not myself) was deemed to be off-topic.

Whether he was off-topic or not is for me to evaluate, but it does seem to be unjust to lock down my thread, because of someone else's actions.

I have always tried to polite and courteous. To the best of my recollection I have never called anyone here"stupid', "idiot", "moron", or impugned their reading ability/comprehension, suggested IQ deficiency, and never used obscene phrases or acronyms like FFS. (However I have observed that when those types of comments are made, it is usually with the strategic intent to eventually derail the discussion)
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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by Morbius » Sun Feb 13, 2022 3:52 am

FFS, you are obsessed!!

Write down on a piece of paper how many waking hours you think you have left on this planet, and how many hours you're spending on anything cpaptalk as a whole, and then tell me if that's a wise investment.

Proper Perspective:

900K+ dead of Covid in the U.S. vs. dataq1 is upset because somebody called someone a moron on cpktk.
John Goodman (our site/forum sponsor) laid out his expectations
Don't believe it. Moderating a board costs time and/or money. Those lofty ideals were a smokescreen for being cheap. It wasn't until The Great War for Moderation that some headway was made.

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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by Dog Slobber » Sun Feb 13, 2022 7:24 am

dataq1 wrote:
Sun Feb 13, 2022 12:21 am
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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by Pugsy » Sun Feb 13, 2022 8:37 am

Ever hear of the term "collateral damage"?
Though I reckon we probably don't have very many members here who are crying this morning because of collateral damage in the aforementioned thread locking. From my PM box contents...mostly applause.

I know that every time I end up locking a thread it's just a temporary throwing of water on the fire because the offenders will go start another thread and start another fire...but at least fire fighting needs are hopefully reduced for a short period of time.

Apparently very short period of time this time.

Some members are just boring, tedious annoyances. Some members are just here to poke at people and stir up trouble and sole purpose in life it to derail threads and make everything all about them....classic trolls.

Figuring out the fine line between the two....major headache and I am just like every other human out there...I have warts and flaws and get short tempered and lash out .....just like every other human out there.

Moderators can't please everyone...impossible job...they can only do the best they can given their own human failings.
Accept it...and move on and quit bitching about it until you have walked in the moderator's shoes.

Collateral damage...yeah, sometimes it happens. Sometimes stopping a war is bloody.

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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by chunkyfrog » Sun Feb 13, 2022 8:48 am

DataQ--on my foe list, hopefully OFF the forum!
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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by jimbud » Sun Feb 13, 2022 9:33 am

dataq1 wrote:
Sun Feb 13, 2022 12:21 am
with the strategic intent to eventually derail the discussion)
What did we do to you between HERE and
by dataq1
Mon Mar 10, 2014 4:08 pm
Forum: CPAP and Sleep Apnea Message Board
Topic: Remstar Humidifier Chamber Replacement
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Views: 538
HERE.
by dataq1
Mon Sep 20, 2021 7:40 pm
Forum: CPAP and Sleep Apnea Message Board
Topic: Oscar 1.2.0 - non-data capable cpap
Replies: 5
Views: 247
To make you become the pain the ass you have become on HERE?

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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by amenite » Sun Feb 13, 2022 10:32 am

dataq1 wrote:
Sun Feb 13, 2022 12:21 am
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I was surprised when a recent thread that I had started ( see: Contributors Qualifications) was locked because of a squabble between two other posters.

Whether he was off-topic or not is for me to evaluate, but it does seem to be unjust to lock down my thread, because of someone else's actions.
...
It should come as no surprise that a thread titled "Contributors Qualifications" that was also largely a complaint about posters generalizing negatively about medical professionals would rapidly degenerate into into some kind of pissing contest and become locked.

Was the original intent of your locked thread to determine what qualifications posters hold that permit them to make sweeping generalizations? I think we all know there are no such qualifications. People generalize and will continue doing so. And it is pretty much allowed here.

Those of us who used USENET back in the day, or perhaps even use it today (it's been quite a while since i used it) may be better adjusted to an unfettered exchange. I for one have no problem with the light touch moderation we have here now (Edit - Thanks to Pugsy - Thank You Pugsy!)

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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by chunkyfrog » Sun Feb 13, 2022 11:16 am

Just another troll, trying to shut down the forum.
Ignore it, and maybe IT will go away.
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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by ChicagoGranny » Sun Feb 13, 2022 11:50 am

dataq1 wrote:
Sun Feb 13, 2022 12:21 am
dataq1
How does it feel to have a big, successful forum living rent-free in your head?

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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by Julie » Sun Feb 13, 2022 12:02 pm

Gawd, does anyone use Usenet anymore? :shock:

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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by Dog Slobber » Sun Feb 13, 2022 12:09 pm

Julie wrote:
Sun Feb 13, 2022 12:02 pm
Gawd, does anyone use Usenet anymore? :shock:
Usenet is still used a lot, but not for discussions. It's now used to distribute large binaries, mostly contraband.
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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by southerndoc » Sun Feb 13, 2022 12:11 pm

I'm sorry, you lost me at John Goodman was a forum sponsor.

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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by nana of 3 » Sun Feb 13, 2022 12:30 pm

Sounds like he thinks he is "ALWAYS RIGHT".... and he has to prove that everyone here is wrong. Hopefully he will leave soon and NEVER return.
He sounds more like that XYYZZZ guy that everyone had to put up with a few years back. :x :o

Thank you Pugsy for the great job that you do to keep us all from becoming stark raving lunatics when everyone has to put up with guys like this. You are greatly appreciated by everyone here who needs help with their therapy......you are the BEST!!

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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by zonker » Sun Feb 13, 2022 1:05 pm

nana of 3 wrote:
Sun Feb 13, 2022 12:30 pm

He sounds more like that XYYZZZ guy that everyone had to put up with a few years back. :x :o
NO! sorry to shout, nana. but if you weren't here then, you don't really know. while dataq1 is tilting at windmills here, he is at least calm and polite.

alphabet boy was loud, snotty and repugnant. even the current crop of "holier-than-thou" forum members would have had nothing to do with him.

his favorite thing to do was call ANYONE who disagreed with him "libtard" regardless of the forum members political affiliation.

while i have dataq1 on my foe list, i'd much rather read what he has to say than what alphabet boy had to say.

(this is by no means an endorsement of dataq1. to the contrary. just sayin'.)
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Re: Forum Rules of Conduct

Post by Pugsy » Sun Feb 13, 2022 1:46 pm

Alphabet boy was in a class of his own. I can count on one hand (I think) the number of members to get banned AND have all their posts removed because they were so badly disruptive to the forum as a whole.
Being tedious or annoying is no where nearly that big of a problem. For that matter neither are some of the trolls we currently have...especially if people simply wouldn't feed the trolls but I know that not feeding the trolls is really easy to say but not so easy to implement.

Which BTW....I wish people would stop pointing out trolls...all it does is give them the attention they desire. They really don't care if the attention is good or bad...all they want is attention.
Quit calling them out...it's not needed anyway....I am pretty sure that most of us here can see who the trolls are anyway.
I don't need anyone pointing them out to me. I can see for myself.

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