I've done lots of reading on here today - so much so that my brain hurts! But I still have loads of questions so thought I'd start a thread of my own - hope that's ok?
So as the title says I'm not even a real Noob yet as I don't have an official diagnosis - just a self-diagnosis. However, I have lots of things that I don't know and was hoping you could help. So first some background....
I live in the UK (relevant because we have the NHS) and am a 48yo female. I broke my nose when I was 8 or 9 yrs old (face planted into the road from my push bike) and have snored ever since. In 2004/5 I had rhinoplasty to try and correct my deviated septum (partially successful - I can now breath through my nose a little bit) but didn't affect the snoring. I snore so loudly that my partner and I sleep in separate bedrooms permanently.
I haven't really slept properly since my late teens, although it was not really noticeable as I didn't have a job until I finished University so slept at random hours. It was only when I got my first job - Primary School Teacher that my poor sleep became really obvious. I was tired most of the time and fell asleep as soon as I got home in the evenings. Fast forward 20+ years with not much changing.
In 2012 I met my current partner who couldn't sleep through my snoring and told me that I frequently stopped breathing in the night. I went to my GP who arranged for me to have an oximeter test at home - the result of that was that I didn't have sleep apnoea

Went to see another healthcare professional who is convinced that I do have sleep apnoea because I have lots of the symptoms - snoring, wake with dreadful headaches, frequent toilet trips in the night, sleepiness during the day, 13 on the Epworth Sleep scale. So back I go to my GP who tells me that I don't fit the profile of a sleep apnoea sufferer because I have a BMI of 19, my neck is less that 13 (?) inches and I'm female. However, she did agree (because I started to cry!) to refer me back to the hospital for another oximeter test.
So now to my dilemma/questions. I have to wait until August 29th for the oximeter test and if I get a positive I have another possible 10 week wait for a machine should that be what they recommend. However, I have read that oximeter tests alone are not all that reliable for diagnosis and obviously I'm worried having failed one before. Also the NHS has quite a high threshold to meet criteria of diagnosis - so I am wondering about just buying a machine. However, I don't know what I don't know and I don't want to make an expensive mistake (it will be approximately £1000 for the whole kit in the UK).
Any ideas on where to start? I feel hopeful and depressed in equal measure at the moment. Hopeful that there may be a solution and I'm not just lazy (what I've told myself for 20+ years) and depressed that I may not meet threshold for the NHS or I may have to wait until nearly December to get a machine from the NHS (if they agree I have it).
Sorry - this post got really long...................
