You aren't having the rather large swings in pressure needs that I have. Not everyone does and those that do may not have it happen every night. That's what makes figuring out the "best way to do anything with whatever" so difficult. We simply don't sleep the same each night. What we have to be happy with is finding something that works well most of the time and accept that things are rarely perfect all the time.
We have to learn to accept that not all our bad sleep is sleep apnea related and we can't always fix all the problems we want to fix with the machine.
We can get you nice clean reports with the DreamStation and last night is an example.
Actually my recommendation for now is hold off on spending the money and work with what you have and see how you sleep and feel and lets see if you ever have much of a pressure change. The main advantage to the ResMed is the more rapid/aggressive response to the when the machine wants/needs to go higher and if you aren't going to have that need then there may not be much to be gained in that area.
Now as for the noise level difference...for me the difference was ever so slight.
My husband never could tell any difference.
Palerider noticed a significant difference in the whine but that was long ago and with the 50 series machine I think and Respironics has improved on the noise reduction thing...and also there seems to always be individual machines that are noisier than others.
Again I have NOT had a chance to use a DreamStation to compare the motor noise or inhale/exhale noise with the ResMed.
It's an expensive experiment for sure.
What I did with all my experiments was buy used at killer deal prices. I never could afford to pay full retail for these machines.
Now if a person isn't comfortable with a used machine for some reason then they have to buy new but for a 50 to 75% reduction in cost I was okay with used.

As far as wake ups during the night. It's normal to have a few like after a REM cycle. Normally we don't wake up enough to form a memory of the wake up and we just roll over and go right back to sleep. When we remember several wake ups it's a pretty safe bet that there were a few others we don't remember. For me a night with a half a dozen wake ups is a good night. I have a bad back and the pain messes with my sleep. Like you I prefer to sleep on my side but seem to navigate to my back and when I am on my back it causes more back/pelvic pain and I wake up. But then I also will wake up on my side and in pain. It sucks being old with arthritis and your pain meds cause insomnia. Damned if you do and damned if you don't.
I still don't wake up rearing to go run a marathon but at least I don't wake up feeling like I just ran one and got run over by a bus at the end. I have addressed the sleep apnea stuff the best I can and I will always have to work on the other stuff that the machine can't really improve on. As much as I wish the machine could fix all my sleep problems...it just can't fix problems unrelated to sleep apnea.