Dealing with your peers

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Dealing with your peers

Post by quietmorning » Sun Apr 21, 2013 1:27 pm

When you deal with your peers (as dealing with the affects of sleep apnea) what are the main assumptions they tend to hold about apnea and about your day to day challenges both day and night with it?

The reason I'm asking is that I'd like to start putting together workshops I can share with you that you can either take to your sleep clinics to hopefully have them implemented or for you to implement them yourselves.

I may post another question here and there once every quarter or so as I exhaust one angle and move onto the other.

This will not be a commercial venture.

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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by Stormynights » Sun Apr 21, 2013 1:32 pm

A woman I worked with told me I was a hypochondriac. She is on the hose now.

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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by quietmorning » Sun Apr 21, 2013 1:55 pm

Stormynights wrote:A woman I worked with told me I was a hypochondriac. She is on the hose now.
**shakes head**

THAT'S a rude awakening!

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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by Cereal Killer » Sun Apr 21, 2013 2:31 pm

When you deal with your peers (as dealing with the affects of sleep apnea)
What do you mean by peers? Other CPAPers?

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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by quietmorning » Sun Apr 21, 2013 2:38 pm

I mean people in your face to face life. Work, home, social circles.

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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by Stormynights » Sun Apr 21, 2013 2:53 pm

I usually don't tell anyone anymore except very close friends and close family. I think non hoseheads just don't get it. If I see someone having problems I might talk to them.

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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by kaiasgram » Sun Apr 21, 2013 3:09 pm

Some of the assumptions I've encountered:

SA is just snoring.
SA is not serious.
SA only affects you at night.
CPAP is an easy fix and not a big deal.

But I've found that it's not so much what people assume, it's what they simply don't know that can make things challenging for us with our friends, coworkers, etc.

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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by Cereal Killer » Sun Apr 21, 2013 3:12 pm

quietmorning wrote:When you deal with your peers (as dealing with the affects of sleep apnea) what are the main assumptions they tend to hold about apnea and about your day to day challenges both day and night with it?
It doesn't matter what assumptions they have, especially as it concerns business and business travel.

I do what I need to do. If I need to carry CPAP with me, I carry it. If I need to avoid caffeine, I avoid it. If I need to make sure I allow seven hours of sleep, I do.

Everybody has weaknesses and things they need to make compensation for. CPAPers are no different.

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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by Cereal Killer » Sun Apr 21, 2013 3:13 pm

kaiasgram wrote: SA is just snoring.
SA is not serious.
SA only affects you at night.
CPAP is an easy fix and not a big deal.
Let them think it. Their thoughts won't change my behavior or how I take care of myself.

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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by YogaKitty » Sun Apr 21, 2013 3:16 pm

Well, my mother immediately told me it "was a racket" basically that sleep studies are just a new fad, the centers are popping up everywhere, doctors are sending everyone to get a study, and of course the results will be that I have OSA because it's all a money making scheme.


BTW, I was diagnosed last summer, my brother was diagnosed this winter, and I'm pretty sure my mom and dad have OSA too. But it's not genetics, "its a racket"
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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by SleepingUgly » Sun Apr 21, 2013 3:18 pm

quietmorning wrote:The reason I'm asking is that I'd like to start putting together workshops I can share with you that you can either take to your sleep clinics to hopefully have them implemented or for you to implement them yourselves.
I don't understand. Who is your target audience and what is your purpose with these workshops?
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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by LSAT » Sun Apr 21, 2013 3:26 pm

SleepingUgly wrote:
quietmorning wrote:The reason I'm asking is that I'd like to start putting together workshops I can share with you that you can either take to your sleep clinics to hopefully have them implemented or for you to implement them yourselves.
I don't understand. Who is your target audience and what is your purpose with these workshops?
Workshops????? Who cares what other's think?

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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by ChicagoGranny » Sun Apr 21, 2013 3:32 pm

LSAT wrote:

Workshops????? Who cares what other's think?
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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by BlackSpinner » Sun Apr 21, 2013 3:32 pm

LSAT wrote: Workshops????? Who cares what other's think?
I agree however many people allow themselves to be trampled by other peoples opinions. This would give them a club to use to beat them off.

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Re: Dealing with your peers

Post by YogaKitty » Sun Apr 21, 2013 3:52 pm

I think maybe it is "worksheets" instead of "workshops" But that is just my guess from the context of the OP
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