let the idiots win?

gar729 · Post by **gar729** » Thu Dec 08, 2005 7:45 pm

So I guess the idiots win yet again. Valued members no longer willing to share their experience, strength, and hope, because of some no-account.
This board has made my life so much more bearable because of the knowledge you all so freely give. To have that threatened by someone so insignificant just blows me away.
Think twice about giving in to the negativity and the many people that will stumble onto this forum needing a word of kindness, or looking for information that maybe only you can provide.
Live and let live
Gary

Cpaper Incognito · Post by **Cpaper Incognito** » Thu Dec 08, 2005 7:58 pm

First off, no one should not stay if they don't feel comfortable. At the same time, no one should be made to feel uncomfortable. I would rather like to think that the 2 very vocal posts saying that they are leaving have more to do with the fact that they have gotten what they needed and are moving on like the VAST majority of registered members. Making a parting shot and stirring the pot without offering to help doesn't do much better then those that disrupt the forum, and that in and of itself is disruptive. And again, we are talking about people that have contributed .07 and .09 % to the forum.

Want to know how to change things? Get involved in solving the problem, not complaining about it.

This forum gets a lot of posts, flood the forum with good posts and the bad ones become very insignificant. I don't mean a bunch of posts saying I agree and I feel the same way, but the same quality posts that have made this forum what it is.

Or you could just buy into the the parting shots and stir the pot even further.