Successful Dreamstation set up - auto (7-20, rarely above 9), flex setting on max, ramp 5 minutes, p10 mask, humidification on high, heated hose. AHI pretty much always under 5, mostly under 3. Great sleep until I was too worried to use it because of FoamGate.
3 weeks into Air Sense 10 for her: settings: p10 mask (with & without mouth taping), heated hose, manual humidity turned up high (7 of

I've tried: apap, apap for her, CPAP ( mostly APAP). Normal and "soft" mode (mostly soft as it was supposed to be more like the DS)
I can't sleep - every time I drop off I wake up gasping for air. The odd night I've managed to ignore it my AHI is very low (less than 0 .5), but it's not good sleep and it's inky for a few hours, not my usual 8-10 with DS- I'm having nightmares with as well as without which is what happens when my breathing is off during sleep.
Things I've tried:
Changing from auto to CPAP, but I could only manage at 5.4cm, when I went up to 6 it was too high whilst awake. APAP Setting the maximum to 8, and then 7. No benefit.
Mask - tried dreamwear full face - I got a sore throat straight away from mouth breathing (I stopped using it originally with DS due to head and neck pain which returned in less than an hour so it's not viable), didn't manage to sleep as I had to work to breathe.
Does anyone have any suggestions?
I'm going to try to speak to my sleep clinic, but I've spoken to someone who was rubbish twice and excellent once.
I'm Autistic and find it really difficult to talk when I'm upset. I'm so angry at Philips (my DS was only purchased privately in November) and enormously frustrated that after 5 unpleasant months getting my Dreamstation set up so it worked and didn't hurt, I only had 2 good months before needing to spend another chunk of money and go back to the drawing board in terms of not being able to get a decent night's sleep.
Because of this I feel like I'm on my own trying to problem solve as you don't get a named member of staff, you just get whoever and I am not able to speak to someone who doesn't know what they're doing or I will have a meltdown and possibly get thrown off the service for being difficult/rude.