Ty'sMom wrote: The doctor seemed to think that 1) he could just not know what to do with the additional energy or 2) that prior psych issues we thought were gone were aggravated. Ty had an alphabet soup of dxes as a young child. He's seemed "fine" the last few years. Could he have been SO tired that he couldn't feel or act out to a degree that suggested a real problem?
Is this the part you were looking for feedback on? I may have missed another thread in which you described Ty's issues in more detail, as well as exactly what he is doing now, after CPAP, that is worse, so my comments are limited.
Does he have ADHD? If I recall correctly, in one of the TINY studies (meaning very small number of subjects) I read about ADHD post tonsillectomy & adenoidectomy, a minority worsened after surgery. The thinking was that perhaps in those kids, the extreme sleepiness had a dampening effect on the behavioral issues.
He made a referral for a psych eval (but due to circumstances, I'm having trouble following through on that).
A psychological evaluation is going to give you a lot more information, as well as a game plan.
Never put your fate entirely in the hands of someone who cares less about it than you do. --Sleeping Ugly