I think I had a good night last night!  I took advice from this board and shortened my range.  Instead of 4 to 15 (my RX is for 9), I set it at 7 to 13.  I won't know anything for sure until I can get the software and reader, but I feel like I've slept.  Husband didn't hear any gasping either.
It was a bit harder to get to sleep with the lower pressure at 7, but  I am confident I can get used to it.  Still couldn't stay off my back tho.  Hopefully my pressure is high enough for back sleeping.  I don't think I could sleep on my stomach with the mask.  I have neck issues anyway with the mask, that would just make it worse...
			 
                 
                         
                         
                         
                         
                         
                         
                         
			 
	