The Spouse questionaire...

[Dave2you]

Take the survey it is very revealing...and fun..


1, I want my spouse to be...

a. Always Happy
b. In love with me, no matter what
c. Alway agree with my choices
d. Worry about me, so I get all the attention

2. If there was one thing I would like my spouse to do is...

a. More sex, more often
b. more cuddle time more often
c. be a bit more frugal with money
d. stop crying so much, and trying to make me feel bad.

3. If there is one thing I would like us to do together is,,

a. go see a happy movie
b. go see a sad but deep movie
c. enjoy a nice dinner alone with candles
d. stay at home for once and get the rest I need for once

4. If there is a goal I want for myself it would be..

a. to make lots and lots of money
b. to be very happy
c. to share a long and good life with the ones I love
d. to stop fussing about my life and just move on to something new

5. the most thing I want for my kids are..

a. a happy life
b. a long life
c. a financially secure life
d. a life they choose out of good wisdom opposite of mine

6. the last thing I want to hear from my spouse is...

a. you need to lose weight
b. I have gambled away our savings
c. It's not you it's me
d. it's because I love you, that i care so much

7. My spouses bigest health issue is..

a. smoking
b. exercise
c. drinking
d. stress

8. My spouse loves me so much they,,,

a, stick by my side at all times
b. Offer great sex even when they don't want to
c. makes me feel good about myself
d. get mad at me because I am a jerk at times, but yet still loves me anyway.

9. My spouce an me are going to life to the ripe old age of

a. till were old and gray and wearing matchiing sweaters
b. till we retire, then we will see
c. at least another twenty years hopefully
d. hopefully till at least christmas, its our turn to do dinner this year

10, My spouses and my life is..

a. joyish
b. content
c. bumpy at times, but overall pleasant
d. full of worry and uncertain about our relationship and the future.



Great... how did you do?

LETS SEE...

Now I want you to do it again, this time pretend you are your spouse and give what honest answer they would give, your best guess..

Then....

Just choose D every time for yourself, and compare thier answers toward yours.


BECAUSE YOU WON'T TREAT OR ADMIT YOU HAVE APNEA...YOU HAVE REMOVED ALL YOUR CHOICES

all right so maybe it isn't that fun.. but it is eye opening...


a great tool to email to someone who is in denial.. pass it on.