Me again, still struggling to optimize treatment

As I haven't done a PSG, due to lack of staff att the hospital (the health care system in Sweden is in full blown crises) so I don't know how my base line sleep quality is - other than absolutely not ok. Slept like a log until I became a mother, 10 yrs ago, and my baby didn't sleep, seemingly at all, for the first six years. Needless to say that me and my husband both aged like 40 years in these first parenting years. Somewhere in that tornado my body shut down, my sleep got totally FU and I finally got dx with severe SA. Had been asking dr. for years, due to me being a super snorer, having constant palpitations, blood sugar issues, fatigue etc. and that my husband heard me stop breathing through out the night, but being a slim woman with no high BP - I couldn't possibly have SA, it had to be anxiety


Anyhow.
I have to machines - one Resmed 10 auto and one Resmed Lumis 100 ST. I almost always use the former as I haven't, according to my pap-nurse (that only check my basic stats. like overall AHI and such - he doesn't go in and analyze FL, FR etc., the Oscar-data), any issues that seem to require a more advanced machine. He's probably right but I can't stop digging in Oscsar and trying out diff. settings in hope to find where my body gets the best sleep and breathing patterns.
I tried both my machines at the same settings Auto 5.6/7 no EPR and Lumis ipap 7 epap 5.6 - and the outcome is quite different, which interests me. Also I feel better when my numbers are shittier (Lumis) and the flow rate curve, RR look worse. I use a Wellue ring to track oxygen and pulse - these nr looks quite the same, and seemingly alright, regardless machine (and settings).
- Any hypothesis regarding this, the different outcomes? (BTW - why doesn't Lumis show FL?)
- Why do I feel better when numbers and curves look worse? Is it because I sleep so poorly that adrenaline kicks in and give me "false" energy from the body being in more stress? I have the setting S which is regular bi-level as far as I can tell.
- Is it possible to also have UARS that fragments my sleep, but doesn't show up bc i wake before any FL och desats happen? Don't know what to do about that anyway as the treatment is pap... Wish I could be sedated every night

(This autumn I've tried for months to upper my settings, using my Autoset, with a pressure of 9-12 (titrated from minp 6 to 9), and I got so sick. After diving in to research I'm convinced that I had symtoms of high intercranial pressure; pressure headache, eyes about to be pushed out of their sockets, cognitive impact and, extreme exhaustion, feeling of being oxygen deprived - felt I was about to die. So - a min.pressure above 7 is out of the question for me - that's where my cut of is. And max.pressures above 10 isn't an option either as I get too sick. And, my numbers aren't any better on higher settings.)
Due to my sleep being so bad I often fall asleep closer to the early morning hours. Just fyi.
Btw - I wrote to Riccardo Stoohs regarding his latest research Association with the apnea-hypopnea index and somatic arousal https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/a ... via%3Dihub - anyone read? It's very interesting and highlights that AHI isn't the best way to determine the severity of SA, that AHI lower than 50 doesn't actually correlate with the burden of symptoms that patients have. I feel this to fall well into what one sees in SA-forums, that people with according to AHI - has mild SA can be very ill, and others with an AHI of 40 can be quite symptom free. In general I feel that this SBD world has a really long way to go yet, to entangle and find solutions for best dx and treatments.
Have a nice day, or good night - depending on what time zone you're in. <3
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