So ... I went to my DME and was able so swing a free 2 week loan of an Autoset Vantage to collect some data with. The RT set it up for me at my prescribed pressure of 7 (incorrectly it turns out). I did not tell her that my plan was to re-titarate myself.
My Experiment: I tested myself for several nights each at a variety of constant pressures and got the AHI data from the readout in the morning (I don't have the software). At the end I tested myself got 5 nights on apap with a pressure range of 5.6 to 12.6. I came up with this range using an equation from a medical journal article on auto-titration. My results are in the chart below.

I pretty clearly have a "sweet spot" at cpap of 8.2. My results on apap were no better on average and I had some bad nights mixed in. I have returned the apap to the DME, set my cpap on 8.2 and am having long involved dreams for the first time in ages.
Lesson: TAKE CHARGE!