Thanks for your input! I've also watched a LOT of Lanky Lefty's videos on YouTube.. he's the main reason why I tried taping my mouth and also why I've been using fixed pressures with no EPR since he really seems to say that it's better than using APAP with EPR... which is really the opposite as what everyone's been saying here. I find it interesting AND confusing that he who seems to be an absolute expert in the field has such a different opinion regarding these things.
Actually the F30i and F30 masks aren't THAT terrible, but I totally hate the sensation of the mask pushing against my lower teeth... I can take any nasal mask without a problem... using a full face mask permanently will be a last resort for me. Also, every study ever seems to point to the fact that nose breathing is much better, so I'm trying to train myself to do that, but I haven't had any luck. Maybe the fact that I've been obsessing over this and trying different settings on the machine every night really makes it worse. Maybe if I kept the same settings and stopped worrying, things would improve! hahaha
Also, Carleton, when using the F30 or F30i, I was getting much more minimal leaks from the mask as well.. it's the comfort or lack thereof that's really, really annoying. But even with my N20, no matter how much I TRY to make it leak, it doesn't.. so my issue is really me opening my mouth and spitting air and not the mask itself since the mask is very very well sealed and also very comfortable. My results aren't that good, but they're still way better (about half the AHI) compared to when I was using the N30i and the P30i, although those were quite comfortable as well!
Anyway, I think I'll try the 8-12 pressure settings with EPR AND taping my mouth with Hypafix for a few nights and see where it leads. It's true that everyone that I know except me has had good results with auto mode... I have a few friends that use APAP and have AHIs below 1 every night... but they're people who've always slept well apart from their apnea problems... on the other hand I've had sleep problems for my whole life.
Oh and since I'm thinking about the sleep problems I've had for my whole life, I thought I could add that even when I was a kid and teenager I would most likely mouth breathe on most nights since I remember always waking up with a super dry mouth and disgusting taste in my mouth that only orange juice would take away

So maybe it could take quite a while for me to get used to keeping my mouth shut if I've been sleeping with my mouth open for the past 30 years?!