Your REM dependent OSA is being well taken care of with cpap therapy.
I don't think we can come up with some miracle setting that is going to fix your primary issue which is probably crappy sleep in general.
The REM crappy sleep...that's been dealt with.
There's a remote ....very remote...chance that the flow limitations you are seeing are playing a factor in your sleep quality issues and we can try more pressure on the off chance you might get lucky and it will help.
Worst thing that might happen with using more pressure is maybe some aerophagia (air in the gut issues) or you simply can't handle more pressure. So it's something to try...chances of it being much help...to be honest slim and non IMHO but I have been wrong before and nothing would make me happier than to be proven wrong here.
FLow limitations "can" disturb sleep...but usually you would see RERAs flagged if that was happening...not always but usually.
It's not a given that FLs always disturb sleep.
What kind of sleep studies have you had....at home??? In a lab setting with tech in attendance??
And you may very well be right....the bulk of the flow rate you are seeing could very well be arousal related if it looks junky just like the guy's report I posted above. He didn't even have REM dependent OSA though...his in lab sleep study showed no desats and an AHI of 0.8...he didn't even remotely have OSA to blame his crappy sleep on.
Now he was taking a medication that has an ugly side effect of messing with sleep but he wouldn't listen to me about going down that road just to see if maybe his crappy sleep was related to medications.
More likely your other health issues are a significant factor...pain especially...been there and going through it right now myself.
And I know for sure it's messing with me and I still can't fix it adequately.
You are super sensitive to medications so doping you up so you can better sleep through the pain probably isn't an option and it's not a great option anyway...but sometimes we gotta do what we gotta do. I have been down that road too.
One thing I might suggest and I really don't like it myself but it works for some people in terms of helping with jaw draw....one of those foam cervical collars. Nothing rigid or huge...just something for a gentle support to the lower jaw to keep it from dropping back or down and causing leaks and/or you having to be half awake to try to hold it in place.
It's a cheap enough experiment to try. Just because I wouldn't like it for myself doesn't mean much....I don't like a lot of things that other people like. Means nothing.
So maybe a little more pressure just to see if the FLs reduce and sleep quality improves...you don't need it for the AHI but you might benefit from it from the FL standpoint.
And maybe consider one of those foam cervical collars that just wrap around the neck.
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