Pugsy wrote:More structured (and better) sleep hygiene might help and sure wouldn't hurt.
I doubt it is the whole problem. I suspect that you have a combination of things that are messing with overall sleep quality that most likely is the reason why you don't feel the good numbers.
Undoubtedly true. It's also always been true for me that the last couple of hours of ideally an 8-hour night, are always the most important. Why? I have no idea. If I don't get those last couple of hours, I am left with a "lost day"; feeling lousy.
Pugsy wrote:The BPH thing...have you talked to the doctor about maybe trying (or have you tried) the common meds that might help?
Nocturia that is caused by sleep apnea usually will go away with effective treatment but unfortunately not all nocturia is caused solely by sleep apnea.
For BPH there are alpha blockers (like Flomax) which have their own slew of side-effects. I have an ongoing prescription for Alfuzosin, however I prefer not to take meds and haven't taken them in a while. I am not sure that they necessarily help with frequency.
Pugsy wrote:Sleep maintenance insomnia (that's where you have trouble staying asleep for any reason) is a tough problem to sort out and fix. The cause is not always readily apparent and even if it is apparent the fix is not always easy to find success with.
Frequent wake ups (whatever reason) totally messes with the normal progression of the sleep stages that we need for our sleep to be the best at doing its restorative magic. I have battled it for a different medical reason that took a lot of trial and error to get it to a manageable level. In my case it was pain...old severe injuries causing bad arthritis and if I lay too long in one position I hurt and if I move I hurt and I used to have 30 to 50 known wake ups and I felt like total crap despite some excellent "numbers" in terms of cpap therapy. Even if I didn't have sleep apnea in the mix I was still screwed.
To have the best chance of feeling the good numbers we simply have to have better sleep quality both in terms of reduced wake ups and good sleep hygiene. These cpap machines can't fix sleep issues that aren't related to sleep apnea no matter how much we wish they would or how much we want to put everything that ails us in the sleep apnea basket.
For me, not having used the CPAP for almost three years, I have lived with a cycle of feeling lousy for a few days and then sleeping wonderfully well (generally as a result of exhaustion), waking up like I could rule the world only for it to last a day or two and then subsequently wake up with yet another lost day. I was hoping that returning to CPAP and sticking with the program would help me break this vicious cycle. Alas, so far it doesn't seem to be the case. The restorative magic is still elusive.
So now I will concentrate on sleep hygiene. Going to bed earlier, avoiding caffeine after noon, avoiding alcohol and drink minimally in the evenings.
Pugsy wrote:I rarely sleep through the night and it's just something that I have come to accept. I have worked with my doctor to find a combination of meds that help the nighttime pain and limit daytime grogginess from the pain. Ambien...I take it occasionally but it will leave a hangover effect for me that lasts a good chunk of the day but I have discovered that even with the hangover thing...that's not as bad as a 30 wake up night feeling the next day. I don't take it all the time...I sort of rotate my meds so that I don't build up a tolerance requiring more to get same results. So while I might take Ambien occasionally I have other meds that I take to help reduce the cause of the wake ups which is of course the pain. I am screwed in that my primary daytime pain med happens to cause insomnia despite the "may cause drowsiness" sticker. A small percentage of people experience insomnia with it and I drew the short straw on that one.
If you regularly take NSAIDs for pain you might talk to your doctor about amitryptiline in very low dosages..like 10 mg. My doctor and I discussed it because they have had good success with it in low doses at bedtime to help manage pain and it has a side effect of causing drowsiness which helps me "sleep a little deeper so the pain doesn't bother me as much"...and as long as I remember to take it by 9 PM I don't have much morning grogginess from it. In the big doses for depression it will knock an elephant on its ass but at the tiny doses it is much less of a "knock you on your ass" side effect.
I still don't wake up feeling like running a marathon...but at least I don't wake up feeling like I just ran one.
I have generally eschewed meds coming from the premise that they are all toxic. That being said, I most likely would take anything if it provided me help with staying asleep or achieving better quality sleep. I will read up on amitryptiline, but I am frankly intrigued that an SSRI has helped with your sleep quality. I will do some more research.
Pugsy wrote:Talk to your doctor about what you can do to improve your sleep quality. Talk about the BPH thing to see if maybe you want to try some meds to help reduce the nocturia.
Google "sleep maintenance insomnia" and see if anything else is spotted that might be part of the problem or solution.
Think long and hard about what it is about your unwanted daytime symptoms actually might be...is it fatigue or excessive sleepiness? They aren't the same thing.
Google all your meds...including the over the counter NSAIDs and look for side effects that might be part of the problem....fatigue...drowsiness..insomnia..nervousness..sleep issues, etc.
And remember these meds have half lives and take a while to get totally out of our systems even if not repeating the dosage.
There's so much more to good sleep quality than just good cpap numbers. I wish it were that easy...good numbers are really fairly easy to get. Cpap machines can't fix bad sleep when the bad sleep is caused by something other than sleep apnea and there's a long list of potential culprits in the bad sleep causes list.
Pugsy, and all the other contributors, thank you so much for all the generous advice. Thank you for all the time and thought that has gone into helping me start thinking about this the right way. I have a feeling that this is going to be a battle and I will keep you posted with my progress.