Janknitz wrote:Roby Sue, if what you're doing right now diet-wise is working for you, then who am I to say otherwise?
Your doctor is suggesting some changes, but yes, it IS hard. The problems that are causing some concern are hard too, so you're going to have to choose your hard.
The doc understands some of this. At the first follow-up following being put on the diet, he was surprised at how much I had (then) changed my diet and concerned at how miserable I was when trying to stick to the diet. He told me not to worry quite so much about the carbs and told me that moderation was a key ingredient.
You may want to do more research about whether or not the whole wheat is really much, if any, improvement for your health. There is a growing body of evidence that says otherwise.
You might do really well with something called "The Perfect Health Diet" by Paul and Sou Ching Jaminet. It is NOT a low carb diet, but the carbs are in the form of foods they call "safe starches"--grain free, but not low carb. Safe starches include white rice (not brown rice!), tapioca, green banana, plantain, taro, starchy vegetables. Many people do GREAT on this diet with significant improvement of their health.
Pardon my saying this, but: Tapicoa, green banana, plantain, and taro are NOT at all appealing to me. They taste pretty wretched. And one thing I've learned while cutting back on the carbs that I enjoy eating is that replacing food you like the taste of with food that does not even smell appealing and tastes even worse is a recipe for turning what ought to be a
pleasurable experience into a mind-numbing chore. CPAP has done that to "going to bed" for me, and at this point I need eating to remain a pleasure rather than a chore.
As for breakfast, if you want to eliminate the grains, nobody says you have to eat eggs. The possibilities are endless:
1. Who says you have to eat breakfast at all? If you are eating a nutrient dense diet the rest of the day, you may find you don't need breakfast. I can go some days without eating breakfast, but not every day. I let my appetite dictate, if I'm just not hungry, I have coffee with some fat added (see #2) and call it good.
I am someone who
has to have breakfast. First of all, I wake up hungry. (Probably because I don't do much snacking after supper and supper is usually six or more hours before bedtime.) If I don't start eating something
solid within about 15 minutes of getting up out of bed, I'm setting myself up for a major, daylong migraine that nothing (including eating) will really fix. Calories from liquid such as full fat milk or coffee with cream don't change the fact that my body needs something solid relatively quickly after I first get up.
During the two weeks I was carb free, the need to start eating something solid within 15 minutes of getting up did NOT change. I can tell when I'm running out of time on the migraine end of things. And it's not pleasant to know that you're flirting with a potentially day-long headache.
I can go the whole morning without a problem--something that NEVER would have happened when I still ate grains and sugars and had to eat every 2 hours or so to keep my blood sugar from bottoming out.
2. A lot of people do something called "intermittent fasting", but often they drink "Bullet Proof Coffee" with MCT's (medium chain triglycerides--fat) in it. There's a long and involved explanation of why this is beneficial--if curious, look it up.
I don't need another migraine trigger. And I've never been one who's had to eat every 2 hours. With breakfast (even a very high carb breakfast), I have never had any problem going 4 hours (or more) before eating lunch. Eating a high carb breakfast in the past often allowed me to skip lunch altogether if I was just plain to busy to find the time to eat. And skipping lunch has never seemed to cause the same degree of migraine problems that skipping breakfast does
.
3. Some people eat "non-breakfast foods" like leftover dinner from the night before, or a rich hearty soup for their morning meal. I'm guessing that won't sit well with you, though.
Hubby loves this, but I don't. Again the problem is sensory: the odor of such food too early in the morning is overwhelming and I physically have to choke it down (even though I'm hungry) and I get no pleasure out of eating leftovers for breakfast.
4. How about smoothies?
I'd just assume have the fruit in identifiable form. I'd also just assume eat the yogurt in identifiable form. Plus smoothies are liquid, and my head needs something that is solid and within 15 minutes of eating.
5. Just about any Paleo recipe website will have tons of non-grain breakfast goodies. I don't think it's necessarily a good idea to eat nut flours and flax creations daily--I actually got myself in some hormonal troubles by eating a flax based muffin every morning when I first started to low carb. The recipes vary in quality--if you keep in mind the concept of REAL FOOD it will help you choose wisely.
Here is where I think you and I need to simply agree to disagree. I know you think wheat and sugar in particular and carbs in general are not REAL FOOD. I think that anything
in moderation can be a useful part of a well balanced diet. I've given up on "low/no carbs" because it's too hard to sustain over time
for me. I'm happier now, although I'm not as happy as when I was not worrying at all about my diet.
I eat lunch on campus at the student residence hall cafeteria since I really am too lazy to try to pack a (healthy) lunch. Yes, this is my
choice and I realize that I'd have a healthier diet if I didn't do this; but I get some important
pleasure out of NOT having to add "pack lunch" to the list of things I need to do in the morning, or even worse, before going to bed the night before. Cafeteria food is notorious for being high in bad carbs, but I can get always manage to get some healthy veggies and a piece of real fruit, as much 2% milk as I care for (no they don't have whole milk available), and usually some half-way decent meat for an entree. And I enjoy eating it. And I don't feel particularly guilty if I have a cookie or two for dessert. And on a day where I wind up with a high carb lunch? I've learned not to worry excessively about it: I'll usually manage to eat a lower carb supper. Or the next day I'll work harder to limit the carbs.
In other words, I do believe I'm now eating a healthier, more balanced diet that contains significantly more fruits and vegetables than I used to eat and as much meat and full-fat dairy as I care to eat (I don't want meat at every meal.) But carbs are part of my diet, and although I'm willing cut back on carbs, I no longer have any real desire to try to cut them out totally: my goal is to eat a lot less carbs over the course of every week rather than almost no carbs at every meal.
6. If a bowl of hot cereal is absolutely the way you want to start your day, take a look at this recipe: againstallgrain.com/2013/01/04/banana-nut-porridge/ It's not terribly low carb because of the banana, but it's grain free and delicious. If you aren't eliminating dairy, it's OK to use full fat dairy instead of coconut milk. I make 1/4 of the recipe (one serving) and don't bother soaking the nuts overnight because I use pre-soaked "crispy nuts" Weston A. Price style (soaking releases the phytates in the nuts).
Tasty to you perhaps, but there's nothing in this recipe that I find appealing. I'd rather than the banana whole (and raw), the nuts as is, and the milk in a glass. But I'd also feel
better if I added a
small bowl of plain old, unsweetened cold cereal. I know that's "junk food" in many people's eyes, but for me, it's something that is important emotionally and I simply won't make it to lunch time on nuts, a banana, and a glass of milk without getting a headache. With the cereal, I will get to lunch and I personally am far less likely to crave carbs (or anything else) before it's lunch time.
Anyway, I don't mean to sway you if you are comfortable with the way you are eating now, but this might be helpful for others who wonder how it might be possible to give up their morning carbs.
Yes, your suggestions are reasonable for someone who is committed to eliminating carbs from breakfast.
And I really do admire people who've made really large changes in their diets and have managed to stick with the new diet for years at a time. But I also think that the need to lose a large amount of weight certainly helps a person to stick with major changes to the diet. And for many of you who are strong advocates of extremely low carb diets, much of why you went low/no carb seems to be tied up with the fact that such a diet made it possible for you to both lose the weight you wanted to lose and to keep it off long term.
But MY goals for the dietary changes do NOT include weight loss. I am not and never have been overweight---I'm 5'1" and weigh about 110 lbs. And except for when I was pregnant, my adult weight has fluctuated between 100 and 115 pounds, with the body feeling at its best when the weight is between 105 and 110. I don't feel much different (physically) regardless of the amount of carbs I eat, except for getting a bit sleepy right after a high carb lunch, but if I focus excessively on trying to cut out all the bad carbs, I do wind up not enjoying eating on a daily basis, and that, in turn, leaves me snarly and not much fun to live with.
But the point that I'm trying to make is this: For me a truly no/low carb diet is just not sustainable over the long run. And in order to me to really change my overall diet and make it stick, the diet that I choose to eat has to work for me in the long run: I have to enjoy eating the things that are ON the diet and at the same time I also have to NOT feel like I am constantly depriving myself of what I really
want to eat. In other words, I've found that
for me moderation is the name of the game when it comes to carbs rather than outright elimination. Carefully choosing the carbs that I really
want to eat rather than trying to give them up entirely allows me to continue to derive some pleasure out of eating, albeit not as much as I had when I didn't worry at all about what I ate on any given day.