Postby Sloop on Mon Sep 03, 2012 7:12 pm
zoocrewphoto wrote:
I switched from a morning person to a severe night owl when I was 19 years old.
I am kind of fascinated with your story. Trust me, I am not doubting the veracity of it at all -- but it is simply that I have never heard of dsps before. How abrupt was this switchover at 19 years of age? And was there any life changing events going on?
I guess I am one of the lucky ones in the sleep department. When I was barely out of my teens, I was a submariner in the Navy. I used to be able to sleep laying between two torpedoes close together on the racks, with nothing for padding.
Today, at age 69, I consistently get between 8 1/2 and 9 hours a night -- sometimes that is a total including a 2 hour nap in the afternoon. Only if my wife or pets are suffering do I chalk up sleep debt.
I was also amazed when you said something along the order of "don't try to talk me into switching to normal work hours because I prefer the midnight shifts precisely because of my disorder" -- I apologize if I didn't get that quote exactly right, but typing this reply prevents me from seeing the earlier posts. Anyway --I have of course talked to many many people over the years who work swing or 3rd shifts and without fail, everyone of them has desired to get back to normal hours. This may sound stupid -- but have you ever considered the possibility that moving to the east coast would correct this syndrome? Or even an altitude change?
You have some good questions (much better than the questions I normally get).
I'm not really sure how my sleep changed so drastically. I grew up a morning person. My mom says that I would go around the house singing at 6am. This sounds very disgusting and annoying, so I can't imagine that I used to be that way. I do remember that Christmas morning was always spent a few hours by myself as I was up too early. My parents figured out quickly that they could occupy me with a puzzle. We had a tradition of one gift on Christmas Eve, so they made sure there was a puzzle there, and I would shake the boxes, pick the puzzle, and have something to do the next morning while I waited.
As a freshman in high school, I had a paper route, and I had no problems with weekend morning delivery. I never needed a snooze alarm. I was up with the first alarm, no problem. IAs a junior, I had a zero hour class that started an hour before normal classes. Again, no problem. I think it started when I was a freshman in college. I know I must have thought I was still normal as I signed up for a class at 7am. I had a bad boss who kept working me long shifts on school days and then gave me the weekends off. The exact opposite of what a college student wants. I don't know if my sleep was internally messed up at that point, or it was just my schedule messing with me. I know I fell asleep during my first calculus exam. I also started with a lot of hard classes, and thought I tried too much.
I suspect my sleep changed in two parts separately. I know, that sounds confusing. But here goes. I think the staying up later and later started first. I couldn't sleep earlier, so I stayed up until I was ready to sleep. I was still getting up early because I had to, and as a young and dumb, invincible young adult, I was able to function and didn't suspect anything wrong. During the summer, I would even work one morning shift a week, no biggie. I would stay up until 3am, go to bed for a couple hours, and then go to work. No problem. One week, my boss (by this time, a different boss who was much better) scheduled me two morning shifts (in a row). She took one look at me the second day and never did that again. I couldn't fake being awake two days straight.
I transferred to the university in 1993 with an AA degree, and technically a junior. For some stupid reason, juniors had last pick of the classes when signing up. So, every class I needed was early morning, and it was a 45 minute bus ride to get there. I was getting up at 5am, and I just couldn't fall asleep before 1am. I learned to sleep on the bus, even when standing up. By then, I was definitely struggling with sleep deprivation. I would frequently forget common words. We all thought it was funny, and I remember a customer telling me that it was a neurological problem that could be serious. I dismissed it. But later, when I quit college, the problem stopped, and I felt better, and I realized it was all related to my lack of sleep.
I turned 18 in 1990, so I am guessing it started somewhere around age 19, but I am not completely sure. I know I was also diagnosed with asthma when I was 19. I had earlier symptoms as a kid that I never reported, but recognized later, looking back. And at 17, I went to the ER and was told I had Reactive Airway Disease, a mild version of asthma. I have no idea if those were related as I never even considered that until today, after reading your questions. I've never looked into my history of being a night owl.
My normal working shift is 2 or 2:30pm to 10:30 or 11pm. I have two earlier shifts per year - Thanksgiving and Christmas Eve. I work in a grocery store, so we close early those days and get very busy. So, they have me come in earlier. Otherwise, I have 23 years seniority, and they give me the shift I want. I have turned down promotions because it would require working earlier. Sure, I would like more money, and I never planned on working in a grocery store so long. But I just can't work an earlier shift on a regular basis. I have done it for 2-4 months at a time when they really needed to me (most recently was probably 10 years ago). I hated it, and I felt like crap every day, even days off. It was only when I returned to my normal schedule that I felt good again. And this was before I had sleep apnea. My job does have good health insurance plan, even for part time work, and that allows me to do my small business (pet photography) as I wish. This means lots of long weekends off. That part is harder on my sleep schedule, but I finally learned how to make it work without getting sick.
I have never considered time a zone change. I'm not sure how to test it without actually doing it. But I suspect it would not be successful. Unlike some people with dsps, or even many normal people, an hour or two doesn't really affect me. You see, my going to bed schedule is somewhat flexible. I typically go to bed between 4 and 6am. But I may go to bed at 3am one day, 5am the next, then 2 days at 4am, a day at 7am, a day at 5 am, etc. I simply go to bed when I feel ready. And then I either get lucky or take the loss based on what time I have to get up. For me, it is less about the number of hours, and more about how many hours during my best sleep time. 4 hours between 9am and 1pm will always be better than 8 hours from midnight to 8am. I am using clock times, but it really isn't about the time on the clock. It's the internal clock, and late morning to early afternoon is my best sleep.
When the time changes twice a year, it's no biggie to me. I have to double check my clocks and watch for a few days, but that's it. I have traveled across time zones, and other than making sure I am arriving at places at the right time, it makes no difference to me. Of course, when I travel, it means I have to go on a more normal schedule, so that is what throws me. Having to sleep in different beds at the wrong time. Energy drinks have really helped the last few years.
Last year, I went on a 19 day trip from Washington to Colorado for a cat show, then to Utah for hiking and sightseeing. 19 days of being a morning person. This was also with untreated sleep apnea. I did it. I was functional. I drank a lot of energy drinks. I had a great time, and I was alert most of the time. I was in bed before midnight most nights, but I spent a lot of time awake, listening to my ipod, playing solitaire, etc. As soon as I got home, I went right back to being a severe night owl. My clock resets as soon as don't have to get up early. And I feel better right away.
I can tell you that I have been "opposite" and "difficult" in many ways. For example, if I get less than 4 hours of sleep, I will be very cold when I get up. It can be 80 degrees, and my teeth will be chattering. I have learned to make a cup of hot chocolate first thing to speed up my recovery. I do not drink coffee or tea. If I can't get a couple hours of sleep, it is easier if I just stay awake. Going to bed for a short time and then getting up makes me feel sick.
At work, all my coworkers wear long sleeves under their work shirt, and often a vest too, even during the summer. I go all year, even winter, with just my short sleeve shirt. I think I wore long sleeves 3 or 4 times last winter. And only for a couple hours. I usually feel quite warm at work. But at home, I feel cold.
Codeine, benadryl, and most medications that cause sleepiness do NOT make me sleepy. The doctors and pharmacists were stunned that I was taking cough medicine with codeine every 4 hours while at work, and I felt fine, other than still coughing. I am also having zero luck with various allergy medications. They don't seem to do a thing for me.
For a long time, I could not eat breakfast right away. It took some real work to find things that worked for me so that I could eat when I was up early as I needed to get my system going. I used to get sick at events because I wouldn't eat for several hours. I eat dinner food for breakfast. For many years, I would buy fried chicken wings for breakfast every day. A few years ago, they changed suppliers, and I hate the fried chicken now. So, I started buying frozen, bbq flavored chicken wings. Every day, I cooked them at home, ate them at work just before starting. They were discontinued last year. I did some experimenting and found that if it wasn't mostly protein, I felt like crap. So, I usually have some form of chicken, depending on price and how much time it takes to fix. I do sometimes eat cereal for dinner when I get home from work
About 15 years ago, I stopped drinking pop for 6 months. I didn't feel any better. I didn't lose weight. I didn't sleep any better or any earlier. I didn't have fewer bathroom trips, fewer headaches, or any of the things that I was told would happen. Instead, I got dehydrated. I don't like much to drink, except pop and the occasional cup of hot chocolate, so I was drinking only water, which I don't like that much. I was drinking less and less until it was obvious I was getting dehydrated. I did change flavors, so I was previously drinking Mountain Dew (very high in caffeine), and I never touched it again. When I started pop again, it as Root Beer for awhile, then Sunkist Orange, and now it is Orange Crush, no caffeine. I still tend to be a little dehydrated, but not like I was during the experiment.
Oh, and I cam sleep with the lights and tv on, no problem. I haven't done a zeo comparison to see how my sleep patterns may be different as I don't intentionally fall asleep with the lights on. But I will wake up with everything on and realize I fell asleep while watching tv. And yes, I am the poster child of bad sleep hygiene. But I never bothered to work on it since my only problem seemed to be not getting enough sleep when I had morning events. Of course, I see now that I was suffering from sleep apnea badly, and that is now mostly corrected. I am still working on using my machine all night every night as some nights, I struggle. But I feel better than I have in years, so it is definitely working.