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Yes, I'm kidding. Sorry, Den, I forgot the smiley face.

NotMuffy and ozij both have valid points, IMO.

My take is that OSA is not an excuse for irritability and that it does not necessarily present special social needs, but I agree that OSA may explain some irritability and that this forum may be a useful tool for meeting some social needs of OSA patients.

My failed attempt to join the witty banter was my way of pointing out that overgeneralizing any patient segment can lead to assumptions based on statistical associations that are not valid for assigning causation.

Or put another way, this forum is a great place, you do a great job, people are people, and it is nice that discussions like these, where opinions vary greatly, go so smoothly here, relatively speaking.

NotMuffy wrote:

Sleepy Taz wrote:One thing we all have in common is the lack of sleep caused by Sleep Apnea, and with that lack of sleep for some irritability.

I strongly disagree. If that were true, then that would mean that no one is/has been/can be successfully treated.

In that case, what's the point of doing all this?

NM

You may disagree all you like, that is your prerogative! What I do know as fact is that I have been successfully treated for sleep apnea for over 20 years and even at that there are days where the therapy was less effective than others. Maybe a stuffy head or some other stimuli caused a less than perfect night sleep and from that sleeplessness comes a much shorter fuse. I have many nights where my AHI was less than 1.5 and still woke up on the wrong side of the bed.

I am having trouble figuring out a position to be obnoxious about.

roster wrote:I am having trouble figuring out a position to be obnoxious about.

Soup for you!

BlackSpinner wrote:

NEW YORKER wrote:
CPAP should be about OSA nad some OT topics but to go as far as making it into your own topics about BJ'S , lesbians, etc. is so off topic that alot of us find it offensive.

But I find bigotry very offensive so we do need a category for morons and bigots after all.

Am I a bigot because I live in Queens N.Y. or that I am a straight white female? I have my opinions and you may not agree but I have some respect for people who don't want to hear about somebody's sex life or lack of it, whether they be gay or straight. Call me what you want, I live in Archie Bunker's Boro, so I have been called it all. I guess we come from different backrounds. I was brought up where what happened in your bedroom was your own personal business and foul mouth was inappropiate. I don't kiss and tell nor do I use foul language in a situation where somebody might not appreciate it.

Maybe a setting to choose a forum view would be appropriate.

View options

1) Categorized
2) Non Categorized

people could view and post in either. A new post in the non categorized section would be categorized by a OCD type moderator.

its not rocket science

NEW YORKER wrote:

SleepingUgly wrote:I know exactly what you mean! I heard about a thread that some nut job started to find a boyfriend for another forum member. 68 pages of drivel! In the end, the member was still without boyfriend, and had alternately crushed on and been crushed by the OP, who all the while was utterly clueless as to what she'd done to deserve either!

Then, there was a thread started about quotes. It's already on page 4, and not a one of the quotes has to do with apnea, CPAP, hoses, or even a good blow job joke.

So you heard about this? Was it not you that started these threads?

I think that is what they mean about in this thread.

You mean all these people were talking about ME????!

I think that maybe CPAP Talk should put a chat section in so people like you and your friend can find boyfriends. CPAP should be about OSA nad some OT topics but to go as far as making it into your own topics about BJ'S, lesbians, etc.

Love the slang "BJ" (spoken like an expert!); however, in contrast to your view that I've started my own TOPIC ABOUT actual blow jobs, I was alluding to word play about a therapy that really blows. Nevermind.

I would apologize for offending you, but in my defense, I had no idea you were so literal, so righteously indignant, and such a frequent visitor to OT threads that you take issue with. Now that I know all this, I apologize in advance for offending you in the future.

NEW YORKER wrote: I was brought up where what happened in your bedroom was your own personal business and foul mouth was inappropiate. I don't kiss and tell nor do I use foul language in a situation where somebody might not appreciate it.

I am sorry you had such a bad upbringing. I am sure if you tried hard you could over come it and where ever you are living.

I like the idea of topics. I think this is the only forum I frequent that doesn't have them. Just keeps things organized, and I come here for information myself, so it would be nice to parse things out quickly. Just my two cents.

Keep it as it is BUT open a 'CHATTERBOX' where all the OT's can go !?!

Sleepy Taz wrote:...
Who among you would like to volunteer to moderate and make sure that only what belongs in a certain category is posted there. This is a time consuming and thankless job, which would create a lot of animosity and the bickering would make this place like other forums that I have visited and never found the personality that is projected here. The uniqueness of this place, the individualism of the people who post, and the level in which they want to provide assistance to those who ask for it is unparalleled anywhere that I have been.

If I remember correctly, ozij has extensive experience being a moderator.

Additionally, I would bet that almost all of those who endorse categorization would be more than happy to volunteer as moderators.

These comments certainly started my day with a good hearty laugh...thanks!

roster wrote:I am having trouble figuring out a position to be obnoxious about.

SleepingUgly wrote: ...
I would apologize for offending you, but in my defense, I had no idea you were so literal, so righteously indignant, and such a frequent visitor to OT threads that you take issue with. Now that I know all this, I apologize in advance for offending you in the future.

BlackSpinner wrote:...
I am sorry you had such a bad upbringing. I am sure if you tried hard you could over come it...where ever you are living.

You fellow hose-heads put a smile on my face. A laugh-a-day keeps sleep apnea away!

Amigo wrote:

Sleepy Taz wrote:...
Who among you would like to volunteer to moderate and make sure that only what belongs in a certain category is posted there. This is a time consuming and thankless job, which would create a lot of animosity and the bickering would make this place like other forums that I have visited and never found the personality that is projected here. The uniqueness of this place, the individualism of the people who post, and the level in which they want to provide assistance to those who ask for it is unparalleled anywhere that I have been.

If I remember correctly, ozij has extensive experience being a moderator.

Additionally, I would bet that almost all of those who endorse categorization would be more than happy to volunteer as moderators.

Curious why people think having a couple categories requires moderation any more extensive than we have now.

Well, the ancients were in favor of moderation. The Stoics for example.