robysue wrote:In a genuine life-and-death emergency situation, yes, you do want and need a team of doctors and nurses to "put all emotion on the shelf" and deal with the emergency medical issues.
I can see where you are coming from but a good doctor must assume that everything is a possible life and death situation. A patient comes in with a headache, you give him a smile and a Tylenol and he drops dead from a brain hemorrhage. A second patient comes in after him with a headache and you are going to order CT scans, MRIs and exploratory surgery.
robysue wrote:But in non-medical emergencies I'm not so sure that doctors who "take all emotion and put it up on the shelf" are really doing their patients a favor.
Why is a doctor involved in non-medical emergencies? Hehe- I know what you mean.
robysue wrote:Yeah, sure the doctor needs to be non-emotionally involved. But I do believe that he absolutely must accept and deal with his patient's emotional state in a positive, professional manner rather than ignoring it or simply dismissing it as unimportant or, even worse, as a mental or moral failing on the patient's part.
There are in fact doctors who do exactly what you are describing. They accept and they deal with a patient's emotional state in a positive, professional manner rather than dismissing it. They are called Psychologists. Medical doctors do not want to be Psychologists. They are there to treat a different part of the body and here is the crux of the problem. Emotional states will often obscure medical urgency which is why a physician needs to quickly cut through everything non-medical to protect the patient's body from the patient's emotional state. Patients will often present themselves in a way which is contrary to real life. When they meet a new person they will brag about their accomplishments, lie about their past, smile when there is no reason to and blow small things out of proportion while they themselves are ignoring something which is about to threaten their life.
A good physician is some one who marks everything which is irrelevant as irrelevant and focuses completely on the physical problems of the patient in an attempt to prevent further damage and to correct current damage. I have, in the past known poor physicians. I won't name any names, but I have none some physicians that were not all that great at diagnostics. In order to make up for this they will attempt to entertain a patient, talk to them about football or baseball or tell them a story about something funny that their cat did. They basically stall for time while they desperately try to figure out what is going on with the patient.
I knew one guy that talked to his patient for a good thirty minutes about something they had both apparently seen on TV. When he came out of the patients room I said (I had been watching on the monitor) "Type II, stage 3, A-V heartblock." He looked at me, a little shocked for a moment because he was so busy chatty with the patient that he hadn't even thought to look. Then he glanced over at a book of arrhythmia we have sitting on the shelf and reached for it when I said "It's not lethal."
What happens after that is what happens in all hospitals. You have the attractive, super personable clown doctor who runs around with an expensive tie entertaining the patients because he sucks at memory retention and critical thinking. Then, after gathering a decent history he walks down the hall and shows it to a less personable but highly respected individual that doesn't want to see patients and asks him what he thinks. In a situation like that (of which there many, not mentioning no names) you as the patient are not actually even seeing your doctor. What you get is a middle man who is there to entertain you while some one that knows their stuff makes decisions about you in a back room some where. This is then related to you as a treatment plan by your middle man and it becomes his job to convince you of it even if he does not fully understand it himself.
Most sleep labs have a list. Well, I should say, all decent sleep labs have a list of which doctors are allowed to reffer directly to the lab and all others must undergo evaluation. This is to prevent problems. I've worked at labs where they did not have a list and the end result is chaos. Patient comes in, problems breathing at night is the primary symptom. Patient is referred to the lab and scheduled. Patient shows up and reports his or her medication list on the questionnaire as Temazepan and Methadone. Two incredible respiratory suppressants. Cancel the sleep study and send the patient back to the doctor that referred him or her with the med sheet circled in red pen. You get other ones as well, patients with active, undiagnosed pneumonia. Problems sleeping? I wonder why. You get patients with undiagnosed diabetes that go into shock in the middle of the night. This is why you make a list of referring physicians that are allowed to submit directly to the lab and everyone else you reevaluate. Charts will go to the sleep tech or the physicians desk based solely on who referred them.
robysue wrote:And sleep apnea is not a medical emergency.
This is really what started this debate in the first place. Who are you to say that sleep apnea is not a medical emergency? Headaches can turn out to be a brain tumor, a stomach ache can turn out to be appendicitis, a sinus infection can turn out to be Ebola for crying out loud. You have to treat EVERYTHING like it is a medical emergency or else you will never be able to catch medical emergencies.
robysue wrote:It is, however, a serious, life-changing medical diagnosis for a patient to face. And it is completely unreasonable for a doctor to assume a symptomless patient who receives a serious, life-changing, but non-emergency diagnosis to be rational 24/7 while learning to cope with the newly diagnosed disease.
You are correct. It is unreasonable for a doctor to assume that a patient will be rational. You must always assume that your patient is about to do the most irrational thing they can think of.
robysue wrote:Add in the fact that I am currently severely sleep deprived because of problems adjusting to the prescribed treatment and it then is downright insulting to believe that I can and should be clear headed 24/7.
No physician should ever expect his patient to be clear headed.
robysue wrote:That's why I brought my husband to my first appointment with the sleep doctor and why he will be coming with me to the followup appointment as well.
He is seeing you for a follow-up? Not only does he meet you in person the first time but then he meets you again? Who is this guy? Do you have compromising pictures of him in a hotel or something?
robysue wrote:And it's simply untrue that doctors "take all (the patient's) emotion and put it on the shelf" to deal with their patients' medical needs.
Correct, only good doctors take all the patients emotion and put it on the shelf. New doctors or bad doctors will often consider a patient's emotions (or at least pretend to) in order to hide the fact that they do not know what they are doing.
robysue wrote:For example, the best OB/GYN's know that pregnancy is a wild roller coaster of hormones, mood swings, fatigue, wild emotional highs and lows, hope, and fear for their patients. And they learn to deal courteously and respectfully with pregnant patients who are having bad days (and weeks and months) and who are emotional and cannot think clearly and rationally during their appointment, let alone think clearly 24/7. I had such a OB for both of my pregnancies. My pregnancies were utterly routine pregnancies, but he always treated me with respect and conveyed that when he was with me, I was his top priority. When I broke down in tears in his office during my second pregnancy because of a totally irrational fear, he did NOT tell me I was being silly or call me names or insult me. Rather he gave me some kleenex so that I could dab at my eyes and nose, but he did not expect me to quit crying. He let me know that it was ok for me to be crying in his office. And then he politely, gently and kindly informed me that he could understand where my fear was coming from, but that the chances of a second long back labor were not that great. And he then asked me what else had bothered me the about my first labor and took notes on what I said in order to minimize the chances of those particular things (such as being tied down on my back by an unnecessary fetal monitor) occurring again in my second labor. In other words, he respected my emotional state rather than dismissing it outright.
Once again "only good doctors take all the patients emotion and put it on the shelf. New doctors or bad doctors will often consider a patient's emotions (or at least pretend to) in order to hide the fact that they do not know what they are doing."
I mean honestly here, we are talking about people that go to school for ten years so they can make 40k/per year while getting sued each and every single day by all of their hyper-emotional post birth mothers. This was not the best career move.
robysue wrote:Likewise, three summers ago I was diagnosed with a necrotizing sialometaplasia by an ENT.
Hold on, let me look that up.
robysue wrote:Although this is a benign, self-limiting condition, it is also extremely painful
Yeah it really looks painful. Everyone take a look at this....
http://emedicine.medscape.com/article/1077574-overview
robysue wrote:, and it turns out that certain kinds of oral cancer display many of the same symptoms. At the start of this problem, the pain was excruciating and after taking one look at my mouth, he could tell he really didn't know what was going on, but that it looked bad: His office made an emergency referral to an ENT who could see me that afternoon.
He was the doctor that holds patients hands when they cry and he referred you to the guy he knew was going to fix you. Classic.
robysue wrote:So obviously I was emotionally upset and pretty worried by the time I got to the ENT's office. At that first appointment, the ENT recommended watchful waiting since I was such an unlikely candidate for oral cancer and a small biopsy.
He suspected what it was but was afraid to say it since it was so rare. He wanted to wait for symptoms either way. Smart guy.
robysue wrote:At both this first meeting and subsequent follow up ones, the ENT and his assistants were always patient with me, answered all my questions no matter how bizarre, and really listened to what I was saying about possible new symptoms and the prescribed pain medicines and whether they were working. Again, I felt like this ENT respected me as a person enough to tell me sufficient detailed information both about what he thought was going on, what might under really bad circumstances might be going on, and why he thought what he did about my condition. He also acknowledged my pain and emotional state as being real and assured me that it was understandable given what I was going through. So this doctor too respected my emotional state rather than dismissing it outright.
and then they never write.
robysue wrote:So I repeat: Calist, I'm really grateful you are NOT my doctor.
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Yeah.... me too. But consider this.... the next time you walk into YOUR doctor's office and show him something he can not diagnose- who is he going to call?