CROWPAT wrote:Those who have good sleep medicine doctors are among the lucky ones. I have visited five over the years and none appeared to know more than I did about my complex apnea. The last one openly admitted it and sleep medicine is his specialty. ...
Join the crowd. I've had problems with sleep onset central apneas with arousal and central apneas during sleep for almost 15 years. It's gotten worse, much worse. But the pulmonologist was dismissive of it. Fortunately, he did a good job with CPAP and then BiPAP therapy. No complaints about his ability to address the needs of the vast majority of his patients. However, he did not do what I consider an excellent doctor should do - recognize his limits.
Due to neurological issues, I tried several neurologists, including a couple who specialized in sleep medicine. One was very dismissive and felt I did not need a BiPAP unit. He ordered a new study that showed ... I need a BiPAP unit. DUH! The other felt that central apneas are very rare, so do not really need to be addressed. Even though I complained at the time that I had LOTS of problems going asleep, not just while asleep.
I finally attained a diagnosis for the neurological issues that made sense. There was nothing much that could be done, and at about that time, I started to have problems with my non-insurance company. I gave up and just used what I had.
About three years ago my BiPAP unit finally died. I fell back to my CPAP unit. And I started to hunt for a new doctor and a new insurance company. (We fortunately do have choices with my company). I found my current doctor, who asked questions and was not dismissive. That makes a huge difference. Unfortunately (probably due to a lack of sleep), I did not get rescheduled for a follow up with him until a couple years later, when my problems with central apneas and sleep onset problems were very severe.
I complained again about sleep onset problems and the central apneas (my wife noted that as an issue many, many years ago). He ordered tests including a sleep study. Well, both the tests and sleep study show I do not breathe as much as I should. And the sleep study made it very clear that central apneas now overwhelm my obstructive events (more than six to one).
Still, he did not get the sleep onset issues were a problem. I don't really blame him. I was severely sleep deprived when I saw him and there was a lot to absorb. But I was persistent when I went for a followup visit and noted it is a real problem that needs to be addressed. Bingo! He did not dismiss it and has helped me address it.
Plus, he is an excellent doctor. Though he specializes in sleep medicine, he admits my case is unusual and we need to work together to get my sleep under control. Rather than dismissing the symptoms, he uses data to confirm or refute the symptoms. I've known for years that something is wrong. He finally did the right thing. He tested for issues. He listened to my symptoms and is helping me manage them.
So, don't feel alone. For some of us, this can be quite a journey. Fortunately, here and together we try to help one another.
So, I hope you find better sleep along the way! Most people do not appreciate what a blessing it is to sleep peacefully. You do. Those who struggle to sleep peacefully know what a blessing it should be. And it is the greatest wish I can offer to you.