PotatoEater,
Here's the post I meant to write last night, but by the time hubby and I got home, I decided to take the rest of the night off and just read
The Silmarillion instead of getting back on the internet.
PotatoEater wrote: ↑Wed Sep 04, 2024 2:29 pm
Congestion:
1. I am using humidity level 5. I'm a bit worried going higher might cause condensation to form inside my mask.
2. I am using a heated hose, temp max at 86f.
3. A hot shower helps my congestion a lot, it's what I do when my allergies get bad.
4. I used flonase but it didn't do much. I switched to nasonex (which advertises itself as anti-allergy) and it seems to help more. It's effects are most obvious when I have moderate allergies.
5. I have not tried using a neti pot. I'll try getting one soon.
Because of your answers to 1, 2, & 3, if I were you, I would increase the humidity setting and worry about condensation issues only if they actually happen. The hose set to 86 should prevent rainout even a much higher humidity setting.
To give you some perspective: I currently am using an unheated hose with my AirCurve 10. I have the heated humidifier set to 8, the max setting because through the many years of xPAPing, I've learned that my nose really likes a lot of humidity. Right now, we're not yet into heating season here in Buffalo and we're still sleeping with the windows wide open. Night time lows can be anywhere from the upper 60s Fahrenheit (miserable sleeping weather) to the low to mid 50s Fahrenheit (wonderful sleeping weather). Ambient relative humidity in the bedroom at night pretty close to the ambient humidity outside, which probably means it's above 50% when the temp is at its lowest. And I don't get much annoying rainout. Of course, when the temps are down in the fifties, I tend to sleep with the cover over my head so that keeps the air in the mask much warmer than the ambient air temp in the room.
Now I also run the hose under the covers. And when the heat or AC is on, the relative humidity in the bedroom is less than 50%, sometimes significantly less than that. And when the ambient relative humidity is low and the air temp is also on the cooler side, I will get rainout in the hose. When it wakes me up, I just pull the hose vertical and allow the condensation to run back into the machine and the humidifier tank. I don't think I've ever had to do that more than once during the night. If I have, then I've learned to do it without fully waking up. My point is that rainout issues are not usually something that creates a lot of sleep disruption for me---even though I have the humidifier set to 8 and typically sleep in a colder than average bedroom.
As for 4: As someone else pointed out, flonase takes a few weeks to start making a difference. And it needs to be taken every day at roughly the same time. In other words, flonase works not by reducing the congestion itself, but rather by reducing the inflammation in over-reactive sinuses. And when it starts working, it is a gradual effect. In other words, you don't just wake up one day feeling the congestion suddenly disappeared. Rather, over time there's less and less and less congestion each day until eventually the level of congestion is so minimal that you no longer notice it on most days.
Going to bed when fatigued:
What I mean by this is that I become mentally and/or physically exhausted and go to bed earlier than 11:30. However, I almost never actually fall asleep that much earlier when I do this - I tend to simply spend more time awake in bed before I fall asleep. I think it's because I still feel jittery despite being tired, or maybe because of the mental connection I've made with that time now.
This is a difficult, knotty problem that can be difficult to untie.
First, it sounds like you may be letting yourself get
over tired before going to bed. And, like a cranky toddler who missed his/her nap, it can be even more difficult to get to sleep when you're over tired.
And as you've discovered: When you are over tired and exhausted, that doesn't actually mean you are
sleepy. So you're lying in bed exhausted, but unable to get to sleep because your body is (like that proverbial over tired toddler) is too tired to get sleepy enough to relax enough to fall asleep. It's a bad feedback loop: The exhaustion makes it harder to get to sleep and the fact that you are not sleeping makes you even more tired and more exhausted, but not actually any
sleepier.
And so you wind up lying in bed
not sleeping. Which in turn leads to feeling jittery. Which makes it even harder to relax and get
sleepy enough to fall asleep. And, of course, all the sensory stuff coming from the CPAP and the mask just adds to the sense of frustration, the feeling of exhaustion, and the jitteriness.
The question is how do you break the feedback loop?
One thing is to relearn what it feels like when you are
sleepy as opposed to
tired or
physically exhausted or
emotionally exhausted or simply dealing with so much
sensory overload that you can't relax enough to fall asleep.
Feeling
sleepy is actually a
pleasant sensation. Feeling
tired or
exhausted is an
unpleasant sensation. Learning to distinguish between feeling
sleepy and feeling
tired/exhausted is important when you are dealing with any kind of insomnia problem. And then when you know the difference between feeling
sleepy and feeling
tired/exhausted, you try your best to go to bed when you are
sleepy rather than
tired/exhausted.
In my case, when I feel
sleepy I often am yawning (sometimes repeatedly and/or uncontrollably) and my eyes want to be closed and stay closed. And the brain feels pleasantly like it doesn't want to focus on anything
other than relaxing and going to sleep. In other words, my brain/mind is not racing through a whole bunch of things, nor is it worrying about things. It wants to just "blob out and do nothing" as my mother used to say. And there's no sense of achiness or physical exhaustion in either my body or brain in the sense of being over tired. Now if I stay up
past this stage of feeling
sleepy, that can, unfortunately lead to feeling
tired or
exhausted, and that in turn can make it harder for me to fall asleep when I finally do go to bed.
Sleep schedule:
1. My dream sleep schedule would be being able to go to bed at 9 and waking up at 7:30.
That's a total of 10 1/2 hours. It's unreasonable to expect to sleep soundly for 10 1/2 hours every single night. Most people need around 8, maybe 9, hours of good quality sleep each night. Many people who spend 10+ hours in bed every single night are not actually getting good quality sleep.
2. It is possible that the sleep schedule I chose is inconsistent with my body's natural tendencies. The reason why I go to bed so late - 11:30 is that when I started CBT I realized that with my original bedtime (9:00) I spent a lot of time awake in bed trying to fall asleep. I figured that if I pushed my bed time back it would help, and I think it did. However, actually staying up that late is pretty difficult at times.
This is a common part of CBT-I. It's called a "sleep restricted" schedule, and I remember doing a pretty severe version of it when I was fighting my First War on Insomnia back in January-September 2011. It
can work for some people---it did help me, but it did require months of dedication to stick with the full version of my sleep restricted schedule regardless of how I felt, both in the morning and at night.
The idea of the sleep restricted schedule (in your case attempting to sleep between 11:30 and 7:30) is to (slightly) deprive your body of just enough sleep that it forces the body to learn how to get to sleep at the beginning of the night and to consolidate the sleep cycles by teaching the body to not wake itself up and then
keep itself awake in the middle of the sleep cycles. The goal is not to eliminate all wakes every single night; rather the goal is to reduce both the number of wakes and (more importantly) the lengths of the wakes to the point where they no longer are interfering with the overall
subjective assessment of the quality of the sleep.
In general, we don't remember wakes that are shorter than about 5 minutes. And in general it's considered normal to have multiple short (less than 5 minutes) wakes during the night: Many people will wake up briefly after every REM cycle. Many people will wake up briefly to turn over in bed. Or to adjust the bedcovers. Or when their bed partner moves around. Or if a pet jumps on/off the bed or moves around. The thing is that in a person with normal sleep patterns all of these wakes are so short that the person doesn't remember them in the morning and they don't disrupt the
subjective quality of the sleep---as in the person thinks they slept soundly all night and they wake up feeling rested and refreshed. And overall, the ratio of actual sleep time to time in bed is usually quite high; this ratio is sometimes called the
sleep efficiency. And when we subjectively report our sleep as being pretty decent, the sleep efficiency is pretty high:
Sleep efficiency = (Total sleep time)/(Time in bed) >= .85 or .90
Now what happens when we spend a lot of time in bed knowing that we're
not sleeping (and possibly
worrying about the fact that we're not sleeping, is that ratio drops. And when
sleep efficiency drops below about .75, most people start to
subjectively describe their sleep as "bad"---i.e. that's when we start saying that we tossed and turned a lot during the night. Or we couldn't get to sleep at the beginning of the night. Or we couldn't get back to sleep when we woke up too early.
Sometimes the only thing you can do is this:
Get out of bed when you aren't sleeping and you've been trying to get to sleep for what feels like more than about 20-25 minutes, particularly if you feel tired/exhausted but you do not feel sleepy anymore.
Now my advice on what to do in terms of your sleep schedule may sound crazy. But here's what I would do if I were you:
1) I'd accept that on most mornings my body wants to wake up between 4:00 and 5:00 AM. So I'd simply get up the first time I wake up anytime after 4:00 AM and I would say to my body, "You are done sleeping for the night." Get out of bed. Make yourself some coffee and breakfast and start your day. Do something "fun" with the extra time you have in the morning before anybody else in the house is awake---read for a couple of hours. Or knit/crochet something if you do that kind of thing. Do a cross word. Get on-line and read the news if that's what you want to do. Since you're not going to go back to bed, you don't need to do "sleep friendly" things. Literally do whatever you want
except for lying in bed trying (unsuccessfully) to get more sleep.
2) Since
wake up time is approximately 4:00-5:00 AM, it is reasonable to set bedtime around 9:30pm or so. Allow yourself the luxury of going to bed as soon as you feel
sleepy if it is after 9:00 pm. But if you don't manage to fall asleep in what feels like about 20 or 30 minutes,
get out of bed, leave the bedroom, and do something else. What that something else is is your choice: You could read, do some handy-crafts, listen to some music, even watch a bit of tv if you want. But do it
outside of your bedroom. As soon as you start yawning, go back to bed and try to get to sleep.
The trick, however, is to do your best not to clock watch: Don't look at the clock when you're trying to get to sleep at the beginning of the night. When it
feels like you've been trying to go to sleep for 30 minutes, get up. It doesn't actually matter how long you've actually been lying there in bed: If it
feels like it's been 30 minutes, that's long enough---your body is not willing to go to sleep yet and there's no point in forcing it to try to get to sleep, regardless of how
tired you feel.
As for anxiety, I'm almost certain that it's a cycle like you described. I know it's possible to break out of this mindset, as I was able to do so briefly, although I've reverted back to stressing over my sleep again recently.
That anxiety is part of your feedback loop.
I'll try to just get out of bed if I wake up early from now on.
Yes, this will help more than anything else will.
If both of my CPAP charts look fine from a data standpoint, I think I'll revert to using nasal pillows and a lower pressure setting since it was more comfortable.
The data you posted looks fine. You need to concentrate on
comfort. If you're not comfortable, you won't be able to sleep well.
Good luck!