Re: Owned 4 Remeds and a weird thing has happened with each. Hard to discribe in title. Pls let me know if this happens
Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2023 8:15 pm
I didnt take what you wrote personally. You were expressing your experience, and questioning why someone would bring that up. Totally legit question, even if it were rhetorical.palerider wrote: ↑Wed Mar 22, 2023 4:11 pmThis is nothing personal, but simply an observation.
I've *repeatedly* ended up attempting to help people that are 'not getting it' in some technical aspect of something relating obliquely to computer use, and I've heard "I've worked with computers for 40 years" from them, probably to tell me to shut up and accept that they know better than I do.
I don't know what that's supposed to mean, honestly. I've worked with computers for 43 years myself, and that really means nothing at all. I started out on mainframes, minis then workstations and multimillion dollar servers, now we're talking about PCs and some somewhat obscure app that runs on a PC, pulling the data from another computer in a medical appliance.
I really can't see what that has to do with decades of experience in a field that's changed so dramatically in those decades.
One of the things, though, that does seem to be consistent, is that in the person's attempt to "give those helping me usable data" they have applied their decades of experience, and done what they thought was desired, instead of just doing what was actually asked, which results in multiple back and forth iterations.
How this applies to you, I can't really say.
Anyway, have a nice day!
I only mentioned my years of experience because as you must know with your years of experience, the reason we get paid as much as we do is literally because of that experience ie we usually know what the users want/need before they do. I'm sure you gathered user requirements in a design meeting and mentioned some functionality they never thought of because on some other project some other user somewhere wanted that functionality, whether you were part of the design or dev team, or maybe it was already in production and you noticed it because of a code change or something.
I get in this case; I shouldnt have. But again, per the noOb thread, this wasnt the standard "provide us with x y z one screen shot" (which I did on page 1 or 2), this was a special request, so i tried to be helpful.
Perhaps all those previous experiences came boiling up to the surface and thought "ugh, another one". I cant say either way, but, again, how you handled my screw up and how Robysue1 handled the situation was night and day. He/she/they ???? (apologies, tough to tel by your screen name) handled me being a neophyte ad graciously going out of their way to offer to coach me along is, IMO, how one should handle someone, especially someone who begged for understanding, was apologetic, and was graciousness, as I was with you.
I hope this might provide insight into why IT professionals might veer askew and as way of offering an apology for doing so, their CV as way as to an explanation of way the deviated.
I still hold your knowledge and you giving of your time trying to help me in high esteem, and harbor no ill will
My sincere hope for you all the best
take care and have a wonderful rest of your day (whenever you read this)