EricinNC wrote:Well, this is not a criticism of you personally so dont think that. But Im one of these guys that really has OSA and really relies on CPAP gear to stay alive. And things like a little noise or a little discomfort with my mask are small things to me. What is a big thing to me is POOR SLEEP. Non restorative sleep. Waking up feeling hung over. I was like that for YEARS.
No offense taken at what you say---although I do have "real OSA" in spite of what you might think. And in spite of being asymptomatic before my diagnosis.
From your other posts it sounds like you were one of the lucky ones who took to CPAP rather like a duck to water in that you started to feel better almost immediately and had little or no real problems adjusting to sleeping with the machine. [And now that your therapy is no longer going so well, you (correctly) resent the fact that you are not feeling well and you (correctly) want to figure out what to do to make your therapy work for you once again.]
But read those pages you provided links to: They really do strongly imply that the biggest problems with getting most OSA patients to be compliant with CPAP are trivial---such as noise and "a little discomfort" and a bit of inconvenience. And let me be crystal clear: It's the language on these
web pages that I take issue with---not your own feeling that the discomfort you've dealt with is trivial compared to the benefits you've had with CPAP in the past.
For many CPAPers, the discomfort involved in adjusting to CPAP is NOT minor---when compared to the benefits they are feeling from sleeping with the machine during the first few weeks or months. And most of the dropouts throw the machine in the closet pretty quickly---I've read that many of them quit using the machine within the first two months.
And I strongly suspect that all too often the these discouraged newbies keep getting told (by the "official web pages", by their doctors, their DMEs, and even by users like you) the same old
same old:
- The discomfort is minor, so just get over it. The machines are really quiet now, and you shouldn't be able to hear it. The inconvenience of dealing with a CPAP machine is not that great, just adjust your life to accommodate it. Just give the using the CPAP therapy MORE time and it will start working (wonders) for you.
And there's nary an effort made by the doctors, the DMEs, and the official web pages to give solid, practical advice on overcoming the difficulties that do NOT seem minor to the new CPAPer. And so eventually the night comes when the discouraged newbie CPAPer just can't face masking up: And they don't. And they sleep "ok"---as well as they ever did before embarking on this journey and (all too often) better than they've been able to during their incomplete adjustment to xPAP. And the next night, they can't force themselves to mask up either. And it gets progressively harder and harder to make the decision to mask up. Until eventually the now former CPAPer throws the machine in the closet so that it is not a constant reminder of their failure to thrive on CPAP---the gold standard of treating sleep apnea.
As for me, I am simply too damn stubborn to give up on myself. But I have to describe the discomfort I've been going through these past six months as
major discomfort and
major dysfunctioning and the benefits (such as they are) as
rather minor: Waking up with a rock hard distended belly full of air for two weeks straight is NOT "a little discomfort." Waking up an average of 6--8 times for an average of 15 minutes or more apiece in six or seven hours of "sleep time" is NOT a minor inconvenience when it goes on for four months straight: It's a sign of major sleep deprivation. The brain fog that started AFTER I began CPAP was more than a major discomfort or major inconvenience. Imagine if you can being fully functional before starting therapy and then suddenly---in less than a week developing all the symptoms you described so eloquently as "What is a big thing to me is POOR SLEEP. Non restorative sleep. Waking up feeling hung over." But instead of it describing your life for years pre-CPAP, it STARTS with the beginning of your CPAP therapy. And continues for a solid four to five months. (Or more for some new CPAPers such as me.) And the benefits so far of sleeping with CPAP every night for the last six months? My feet and hands don't hurt when I wake up. And some mornings I don't have a headache. And my husband gets to sleep sounder. Don't get me wrong---those are nice (particularly the feet and hands not hurting so much), but these are NOT
major life changing benefits compared to the
major life changing discomfort and dsyfunctioning I was putting up with in the fall.
And I personally think those in the medical profession---including those official sites you cite---have an obligation to make it
easier instead of harder for newly diagnosed OSA patient to adjust to this bizarre therapy warts and all. And in my not so humble opinion, those in the medical profession---including those official sites you cite---do a damn lousy job of helping anybody serious adjustment problems become a successful and life long CPAPer.