Hi Anne, I have tried the cold cloth in the am too. My eyes are pretty close set, so maybe the nose bridge part of the mask is putting too much pressure against the tissue of the eyes. I am thinking of trying the hybrid mask, since I mouth breath when asleep.
I also have close set eyes. I do find that the scarf helps some. At least I feel like I am protecting my eyes. I wear a small size quattro pro. I would like to be able to try out some other full face masks just to see if they are any better but can't afford to just now. As long as my pressure is low, my mask doesn't seem to leak. It is just as I go over like 10 then it does.
The bad thing about the puffy eyes is that it makes us look like we have aged more since cpap.
I try to wear sunglassed everywhere possible to hide my eyes.
Let me know what kind of ffm works for you since we both have close set eyes. If it works for you I may give it a try. What size quattro pro do you use?