Here is part of a letter I am getting ready to mail to her physician.
Any advice will be appreciated. As you can imagine, my brother and I feel somewhat helpless to watch her die painfully over a long period of time.I am xxx’s son and caretaker. Recently I observed mother napping on her bed for a few minutes. While asleep she was snoring heavily, her breathing stopped frequently, and when she did breathe she was struggling to get enough air. Being a sleep apnea patient and CPAP user myself, what I observed leads me to believe mother has severe obstructive sleep apnea. In fact, we believe she has had it for decades.
You and I discussed once that mother would be very unlikely to tolerate CPAP and I believe that is even more unlikely now as her dementia is slowly progressing. I have been advised by several friends with elderly parents who have sleep apnea, that supplemental oxygen when sleeping has been prescribed for their parents. It was also stated that their parents were diagnosed in rest home settings using portable monitoring equipment and overnight stays in sleep clinics were not necessary.
Please proceed with the testing if you think supplemental oxygen may be appropriate treatment for my mother.
Thanks,
Rooster