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by mossytreesprite » Thu Jan 22, 2015 12:45 pm
I do want to add a couple more cents about PR. Whether or not he's your cup of tea, he has been really helpful and given me some great advice that really helped both my understanding and my practice of treating my apnea. For that, I am very thankful.
This forum does take some getting used to, and it's definitely not for everyone, but it has helped me and I have laughed more than once. I already added my input about first-time posters - and I still stand by that opinion that kid gloves are a helpful thing for first-time posters who are scared and confused, but I have seen people who post for the first time and clearly aren't even attempting to listen to the (good) advice they are being given, so I get where some folks are coming from. But it's true - online forums are no place for wusses, and if you don't have thick skin when you start, then you better develop it pretty quickly or you'd be better off leaving. I'm no stranger to hard-a** treatment myself, I used to be a ballerina, and that may sound dainty to most folks, but I'm telling you - those b*^ches cut to the bone and go for blood. Your self-confidence will be shredded in two seconds flat and used for resin on the tips of their pointe shoes.
That being said, I still don't like the bickering, but that's human nature - along with judgement, and the anonymity helps to stir the pot a little faster. You just have to take this place for what it is, because if you stick around, you'll learn a hell of a lot...
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.